What To Do When Your Boyfriends Likes Another Girls Pics – Ask Mark #29
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This is dating and relationship advice delivered differently! Tonight is What to do when your boyfriend likes another girls pics and what to do when he likes another girls Instagram photos. This is Ask Mark, where I (Mark Rosenfeld, dating and relationships coach from MakeHimYours) answer questions directly from you, my subscribers!
The first dating advice question I'm answering today is in regards to what to do when your boyfriend likes another girls pics and what to do when he likes another girls Instagram photo. In the hardest Ask Mark question yet, I’m tackling a difficult relationship problem – what to do when your boyfriends likes another girls photos on Instagram or social media in general. What do you do when he likes her pics and what to do when he likes another girls Instagram photo? What if he tells you that you have to handle your own insecurities, but you still feel terrible about it? Where is the line between you handling your own insecurities versus him being disrespectful in the relationship? I delve into the issues around what to do when your boyfriend likes another girls Instagram photos, the factors you need to consider and how to ensure he respects you in your relationship. Watch the video now so you know what to do when your boyfriend likes another girls photo(s).
The other dating advice question is related to what to do when a guy with a girlfriend kisses you. What should you do when you’re hit on by a guy with a girlfriend, especially if you really like him and he kisses you?
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Hi Mark my fella got loads of girls in bikinis/just undies on Facebook. He sends messages like your so sexy, omg how gorgeous are you etc. Why does he have to send messages. I've mentioned it to him. He lied and said he not sent them that fellas at work must of got hold of his mob. So now I feel I'm not sure if I can trust him????
He said it wouldn't bother him if I was talking to someone else the other side of the world ?? He said sorry for any pain etc caused but they are all still on his page.
I'm 49 his 51 so not young either.
I dont really mind him liking instagram models pictures, cuz i know he doesnt expect me to look like that. What irks me is when he likes pics of pretty girls at our school, because it feels like im in a competition with them now, or hes wishing he had her instead of me.
Just like follow and obnoxiously comment on other guys photos - the ladies they like are usually wayyyyy out of their league and the person he constantly likes on social media doesn’t know he exist except as a fan.
Yes men will look at women in the street its normal. BUT facebook and instagram are sites meant for social interaction. A guy in a relationship should not want to friend, comment, or like a photo of another woman unless it is a friend, or a family member. If he is commenting on a strange woman's photo he is leaving a door open for social interaction with this person. What would be the point of that? unlike him giving a glance at another woman on the street social media comments and likes that he leaves on a photo will remain there forever. If he is not respecting his significant others feelings then he should get the boot. Men who do this are immature, a real man thats in a relationship with a woman does not need to hide behind a screen to give another woman attention through social media.
I noticed the guy im talking to hasn't liked any of my stuff but before we talked he liked all these girls pictures around the same time. I haven't seen him liking anyone pics since he been talking to. I do know he actually saves my pics. He has a crazy soon to be ex wife. I feel like those girls he liked pics before he met me maybe he is actually interested in me. What do yall think or do you think he ks going to bounce on me as well
Yes ikr! i bet you understand how insecure i am with this😂 its so frustrating because i hv to restrain myself from bringing up this topic to him cause i might lose him (knowing how its so ridiculous to him for me to be so jealous of that mere thing)
Your partner liking only booty pics is very disrespectful, shitty and incentive. Of course he is attracted to other people but there is no need to rub it in your face. He wouldn't like it the other way around.
Thank you for this post. I recently found out he follows a friend from years ago. Which is fine, only she's hardly clothed in most all her photos. What bothers me is that he knows her personally and again, half naked and posing. We've discussed this and I had to break it down why I feel uneasy. Now I feel like I can't trust him as I had to talk about why it made me uncomfortable ( he should know, without explaining). He's only stopped communicating to her because I said it bothered me, so not really his choice or idea. Also, I'm starting to create an eating disorder. I felt cheated.
This really helps, thank you. As emotional as I am about my boyfriend liking other girls’ pics (lately the same girl), I want to approach the conversation with a leveled head. What we have is too good to be ruined over something like this, but it’s something I can’t dent is bothering me and needs to be addressed just for my own peace of mind.
This is so real my bf keeps liking my gf picture every time she wears sexy clothes , I told him am uncomfortable with it. He said I am just supporting her and help her build her confidence . is this real answer or he's flirting ?
ughh my boyfriend likes other women’s pics when they’re wearing revealing clothes and show a lot. i’m over it. 😒😒 he never ever likes my pics and decides to avoid them but he instead goes for the bikini models that are stunning. he goes to an all boys school yet has so many females on his social media over the amount of men he has on these apps. sometimes on his snapchat stories he asks for rates, tbh’s, and other stuff like that. he just tells me to not worry about it and ignores the fact that i don’t want those to be posted on his story. he tells everyone to hit him up on snap and when i do he totally ignores me. i want to find someone who is more loyal then he is.
My boyfriend doesn't like my photos on any of the sites he follows me on but likes his female friends photos and they're usually single and taking sexy photos. He claims he is busy, phone died, bad service, etc as to why he cannot call or video chat OR text me. Sometimes he replies to my text 1-2 days and it's usually short. We are in a long distance relationship and I feel like he lost interest or is taking me for granted.
The ex thing can b a real challenge 4 me. It's tured a few guys off but 4 a worthy cause i think. Life is always a challenge tho. :)
I'm going thro a divorce but it's mutual. We have made it a point 2 b on good terms 4 our sons sake. As odd as it sounds, he's step dad. However, he's the male my son emulates (unfortunately bio dad was a bit unstable during his younger yrs.) 2 rip him out of his life would cause damage 2 both my son and my ex. I'd rather get over myself.
I actually still have a lot of respect 4 him and don't c him as a bad person. We just aren't good 4 each other anymore. We were best friends b4 our marriage and we try 2 focus on that aspect of our relationship now. Basic friendship is how i started off w his bio dad after we split and the results have been amazing.
His bio dad is a major part of his life now. He (unfortunately 4 me but great 4 them) has custody of him 4 the moment (very hard 4 me. 1st time in 11 yrs he has ever lived somewhere aside from w me). He's a great dad and a great friend. He's married w 2 adorable kids now.
The woman he married is amazing and we get along very well. Couldn't ask 4 a better co-mom than her. They have both been there 4 me during my recent separation. They check up on me and help me out when they can. It's awesome! :)
It makes 4 a strange situation. Especially when we r all 2gether (school related things and what nots. We only do 1 meeting w the teachers, so we stay on the same page). We also keep an open door policy. A true friendship w support, advice... ect.
It's still very new (8 months) since getting seperated and that can b challenging 2 navigate but it's so important 4 my sons well being. I try 2 b up front from the get go and let any potential mate know this and the ys. However, i know it's a lot 2 take and handle, so i exercise a lot of patience.
It seem 2 have 1 of 2 results when i tell a potential partner. Either they become insecure and flaky. Which can b extreamly hard 2 counter and is most common. Or they gain a new respect 4 me and the lengths i go to as a parent.
As his step mom says, "We're team Mathew!" I just want the best 4 my son. He needs 2 know life can get messy but we can clean it up. That we make our own happiness, even if it doesn't make sense 2 others...
I feel guilty giving Guys attention or conversation let alone eye contact when I'm in a relationship. I don't even look at the damn waiter in the damn eye. But when I'm singlleee !!!!! Every male and there babies are going to get my attention. Hearts. Flirts n all. I'm bold asf.
But when I'm in a relationship I'm extremely loyal honest and faithful n i take it extremely seriously. I can put it on my soul I don't scroll and get tempted to look . Turned on. Or even say oh his cute. I literally scroll n luaph at funny shit n keep it moving. I understand what this guy is saying but no. I guess my problem is I have a firm definition of love/faithfulness/loyalty and honesty. And expect the same as I put out. That's my problem
I get that he finds others attractive, but why does he have to like the insta models sexy underwear pictures for me to see??!! Not that it is intended for that but it turns out that way and I'm the only one that would care about what he likes. I try to not make a bog dwal out of this but I can't help that I'm tearing up right now because he's busy this weekend, didn't really have time to talk but still can find the time to like such pictures. This makes me feeld sad, lonely, angry, rekected and is really hard on my confidence (my hair isn't as orange, I don't have as much freckles, I'm not that skinny, I don't have the money to buy the clothes I want, my hair isn't curly)
For the girl who is kissed by the guy with the GF: One of my guy friends mentioned that he did once cheat on his wife by kissing another woman. At the time he says he remembered mentioning several times that he was married, but the girl didn't back off and kept flirting with him. One night when the team went out for drinks he ended up kissing her.
I'm not defending my friend's actions -- obviously, if you can't handle your beverages you shouldn't have them AND if you're married some part of you should be on autopilot to back off from women who don't have the common sense to back off -- but it's also important to note that some women take "I'm married" or "I have a girlfriend" as some kind of challenge and actually flirt more.
Bottom line is that if a guy tells you he has a girlfriend (or wife) he's putting the ball in your court. You must be a lady. Make a bit of small talk for a few moments and find an excuse to back off.
Reassure yourself Christine! Keep kicking butt in your own life. Remind yourself - he CAN leave me for them... he'd just be an idiot to do so. If you don't believe that within yourself, work on yourself each day so you feel that way :)
Hey Mark, this is really great video as always; they are so helpful. I do have a question for you. I moved out of my parents house two months ago and I need help talking to my mom about spending the night at my bf's house from time to time. Because I am an only child, when I moved out, the agreement was to let my mom know where I am at all times and that was it. And I told her that for certain occasions I might spend a night at a friend's house or my bf's house if it gets too late and I am too tired; she told me she was okay with that. One night my bf and I were playing video games, got way to in to the game and before we knew it it was 11:30pm so I text my mom and told her that I was going to sleep there because it was really late and I was very tired. She went ballistic and need less to say she said some pretty hurtful things; I felt like she saw me as a slut or a whore. I am 27 years old planning to wait til marriage (if you know what i mean) which is something he agreed upon and she knows this but the way she talked to me made me feel otherwise. As an adult, I don't feel like it was okay for her to act that way towards me for spending the night at his house. But I am having a hard time figuring out a way to talk to her about this without her seeing me as a slut for doing so. I am an adult, I shouldn't have a mother yelling at me for such things.. or should I have expected it? Did I do something wrong? Please, I need your help!
Love love your videos thanks for the amazing content…I have a male friend who has a girlfriend, me and my male friend have never ever been inappropriate, he lives os but I see him approx 3 times a year when I travel, he always catches up with me, takes me to lunch and shows me around, we also communicate via messenger when I am there. His girlfriend however cannot stand me and acts beyond rude whenever she sees me, its embarrassing and awkward for him and quite frankly is upsetting to me. Ive decided to cut him of from my social media as it was starting to feel a bit strange. He got angry when I did this as I think he feels that I don't want to be his friend anymore (which isn't the case) It has been about 3 months with little contact although I did notice that he has started liking some of my insta pics from like 4 months ago…..we also have a prior history of having fights if I don't respond to a message the way he wants e.g. one word (when I'm busy) I seem to be able to upset him quite easily and I guess vice versa hence why I cut him of from social media…is something going on ? Im confused Jo x
Exactly it's an act. What's so simple about not liking a photo. Not dming? We are all attracted but I feel females know we don't have to LIKE, that makes a notification for the person I'm liking. And easy to start a conversation
Hi Mark, finding your channel feels like fate right now.
I've been going out with this guy and since the start I've been my real self. I didn't know he had a gf from 2 years ago the day we met and had a close encounter (we had been texting for a while). He broke up with her shortly after us meeting and I really tried to be just his friend and give him a time to recover but he kept hitting on me and I was already attracted. A week ago he told me he was just seeing me at the moment so I though everything was ok.
I'm not the best at showing my emotions and often make people insecure without intention, I'm inexperienced so I tried to let him know what I was thinking: I really wanted to see him, and also kiss him (It still feels weird to express D:) .
I don't know what went wrong from that point on...He's been kinda distant...did I sound desperate? Was it wrong to want to tell him what I wanted? Was it trying too hard?
Those were good questions!! I'm curious to know if being a love counselor has made your personal love life a little trickier now that you can read women so easily? How do you keep yourself from raising your standards too high? Love your long hair x :)
Thanks kidna - though I'm far from perfect myself. I remember like everyone that we're all human, and with all my rants about not being picky, it's hardly appropriate if I'm picky myself! Coaching helps me see the human side of people every day and you realise no one is perfect :)
Hi Mark! I love your videos so much. The way you talk so easy to understand. thank you for wonderful advices. When i need some certains advice, i'll def go check one of your videos that related to my problems. haha. And yeah he liked and commented on some girl pictures, like "wowww so beautiful" and i was like what???? I know he is so friendly to others but it makes me feel so insecure. i agree with you, i feel like he wants the attention to that girl, but i keep telling myself, try to be positive, nah, he still cares to me, he always text me, so i dont need to worry. Have a good day Mark
I always respect him. Even when I was mad, i never text or call him when my emotion runs high. I let myself cool down then I text him. I had communicate with him, I asked him and he pretended don't know. He didn't even answer. He changed the topics. :(
Mark Rosenfeld Hi Mark. It's me again :) . Well now everything has changed. He didn't even bother to reply mine but instead commented on the girl's picture. I don't mind at all when he liking other girls picture, but why he liked that kinda girl pictures, I mean she show her legs, boobs a lot. I don't know what the girl intention, she always reply back so fast to every comments and when she didn't get replied from the guy, she will def mentions the guy again until the guy replied her back on her Instagram. Something like the guy commented : "alright nice talking to you. have a good day" She not stop there she commented back and said " yeah! What are you doing? I wanna know you more. Tell me please. It's ok to DM " what in the world! Normally, I'm not that type to go you know out my way looking on social media to find things, but I found it on discover button on Instagram. Lol. And I never like crazy to text my bf. When he doesn't reply, I reassuring myself oh he was busy I guess. I just never rushed him to reply me faster. I understand him. But why he did this to me? I just don't get it. We never had like big arguments, until this girl following him. Alright thanks a lot Mark. Hope you have wonderful day :)
What about if we are watching t.v. together and he's checking out women and verbally says she's hot and he'd sleep with her? How do I take that one as I look on with surprise and not say anything as I'm think is he looking for a bite!!
hi Mark it's Yolanda how are you I couldn't find a subject page for this particular subject but I want to ask you what does it mean when a guy talks to everybody else but you and they know you like them does that mean that they don't like you or does that mean that they're shy I have a new friend that I was talking to and he slowed down the talking with me we've only talked on the phone once and texted a couple of times now he won't say anything back if I text but when I see him in person you know he'll speak to me and stuff sometimes and now he's doing the thing where he wanted to look at me he talks to other people but not me I'm so tired of it Mark what am I going to do I'm sick of this thank you
lol... that first question, my thoughts on that is aslong as the dude ain't cheating, who gives a shit! god gave us eyes to see and I've always said, "I dont Care where you get your appetite from, aslong as you eat at home!" be secure with yourself, after all if you have the dude, there ya go! like Mark said men are visual creatures, blame evolution lol... nothing wrong with looking aslong he's not disrespecting or hurting the relationship, no harm no foul😊😊😊 great answer Mark!!!😉😉😉👍👍👍👍
Mark Rosenfeld oh really??? Lol😂😂😂 NICE!! I can see you doing that for sure!!!😜😜 but actually here in New Mexico, its where i live, they come out here frequently at the Santa Ana Casino! my bffs wife (whose taking me lol) is an ex stripper lol..so alot of her guy friends are all strippers lol 😂😂😂 woohoo!! Lol.... but Vegas would be the bomb to go see that show! alot of great events go on over here too! But wow Mark, from stripper to dating coach! 😂😂😂 no wonder you know all the secrets hahaha!!😂😂😂😜😜
Mark Rosenfeld lol.. Exactly! I've been in these situations before in the past with guys and i actually will join in haha😂😂😂😂...i appreciate gorgeous men and women! that's why I'm going to see the men from Thunder the Under soon with my daughter and friend!! Ha!! I'm very visual as well.. maybe that's why it doesn't bother me! Either way, Great Vids Mark.😉😉😉. Love your channel!!😙
Mark Rosenfeld LMFAO!! 😂😂😂😂😂well that's why i said it depends if its hurting or disrespecting the relationship and the level of the situation. I guess I'm in a realm of my own,😂😂😂 I've never been an insecure person when it comes to this kinda stuff i guess. I've never been the jealous type, its a wasted emotion. If a guys gonna do what a guys gonna do, then NO amount of jealousy or insecurities is gonna stop it😊😊😊 boys will be boys😎
Hahaha. Thanks. Appreciate the comment. Another girls charisma? He can't possibly doing it to get attention from her (he's talking to you, not her) so this one is on you. If you're finding yourself a little jealous of her charisma, use her as an inspiration. I remember one relationship where my partner would always talk about Chris Hemsworth a lot, and I reframed after a little initial jealousy as a reminder to always work on myself to be the best man I can be.
After all, CH is pretty awesome.
I admire beauty in both men & women alike and can appreciate any man I'm with doing the same. There is however a massive difference between admiration & eye-f***ing a beautiful woman in front of me as that FEEDS my insecurities & undoes all the hard work I've done to control my demons.
Typically my reaction has been met with "but I'm with you' as though I should feel privileged that he's with me and not the stunner that he just eye-f***ed in front of me.. I'm no longer with that emotionally immature bloke but many of my girlfriends are still enduring relationships where their men are feeding their insecurities in this way. I look forward to your more in depth video on the topic
Thanks for the comment Naiils.
I dunno. Your comment here "HE undoes all the hard work I've done" seems to me like you're giving an enormous amount of your personal power over to him. I feel like if you were really in your confidence here, you'd chuckle, roll your eyes and go have a laugh with your girlfriends.
Or would your argument be you're being disrespected here?
This is where we again encroach on that fine line.
Hi Mark, I just found out your video's! I found it very handy and sweet of you to make these videos! Your are giving the best advice!! Even better then my own bestfriends.. thank u
I have a very hard question and I dont know if you can help me about it. I really really like a guy, he plays football in my town and he lives near by my house but ofcourse i wouldnt see him bu tomoroww or so... or ever 😂😒only if gods wants..
He had a facebookpage but he didnt receivw or read message, yes i text him a message via fb.
Also he did not reply my friendshiprequest too..
What to doo? Do i need to stop of can a try something more to make contact with him... it is soo hard, especially when he got kind of lots of followers but not that much....
And what can i say when i see him at the grocery or anywhere?!?! Thats the most important, im definetly gonna say hi, but how can i make him interesting in me???
Sorry for my bad english, i hope you can advice me, espacially the last question
Thanks Fashion Fairy - so great to have you on my channel.
Do you know the guy personally? Or is he just some football player you watch?
I mean, if he's just some football player, you really need a way to be able to introduce yourself, especially if he's not checking his Facebook page or messages. If you're really ballsy you could walk up at some point and start flirting, otherwise you'll need to be at a party he is at or know a mutual friend, etc...
what do you do if he wants to keep a friendship with his long-term ex? seeing eachother, talking on the phone and of course texting with her? even if he says he's strictly only wanting to be friends with her and is not willing to give up the relationship?
Yep been there. Not a good feeling. I've never been calm enough to talk on the spot. I would just storm off in a rage (lots of swearing) and go hide to cry (feel sorry for myself, put myself down). That reaction would make me angry again, feeling like Im being used, which is just unacceptable. Totally insecure. Made me feel like I was in competition with every girl out there, or that I was not enough. Like there was something wrong with me. Then I'd eventually calm down, wonder why the hell he was with me if he wants someone else's attention. Made me think, ok he's bored with me? He doesn't feel like he has to work to keep me around anymore? Fine, he can jerk off to all the pics he wants I'm outta here...probably too busy to notice I walked out anyway. Fucker!! If he thinks I'm going to sit around here waiting on him while I feel cheated, think again. I'll be alone but I won't be played and made a fool of. Loll yeah putting it out there even if it's embarrassing.
oh I've come a long way from there! haha That was in my early twenties...completely understand attraction to others is normal. I'm attracted to other people too. Like you said it's all about the intention. Thanks for the great advice, never get enough of that :)
Awesome honesty miss Brock. Really watch your reactions here - it's interesting how we can take something that can be quite normal - him being attracted (at times) to someone else (as I said in the video, social media is going to make this all the more obvious at times, an insecurity we all need to learn to handle) - and make it very personal. Imagine if you could roll your eyes, chuckle, or just sit down and have a calm conversation about respect, as per the video. I'd encourage you to catch those beliefs before you act on them and seriously question them!
Lolzzz a video for the ages mark :) . I can relate to reconcilia. This guy randomly did that to me once. Lol i just kindly said he looked handsome in which he did and i guess he took it as a invitation and gave me a huge kiss while i was talking. Completely took me off guard😬. Not sure if he had a girlfriend but i was currently separated from one of my ex boyfriends at the time. But i set boundaries and it never happened again. 👍👍
It definitely did :) In my question I meant following instagram accounts that post random pics of random girls from all over the world, boobs and butts in your face type of pics and liking these posts. I understand that nothing is going to come out of this, but to me its just ...weird. Like why do you feel the need of doing that ? To acknowledge a beautiful woman on the street is one thing, often it is involuntary.
I def understand this girl's feeling. I've been there. When I told my bf that I don't feel comfortable with that, he told me "I am in a relationship, but I am not blind. I can't stop admiring." At first I felt hurt, but later I have to agree: I have men I like too like actors and soccer players haha. So yeah girl, just be confident. I know this is going to be very hard... I am learning it now too.
Well although I agree with my bf that "it's unhealthy to suppress something which is natural", I think liking Ins models too actively, spending too much time on those things, and making it take up too much of time that should belong to you two are stepping over the line. And it's important that your bf gives you send of security in other ways.
Yeah I think liking other girls' pics is not a deal breaker really. Try think it this way: I will (and I believe you will too if you are honest) still love to see handsome guys on the street even when I am in a relationship. So this is just normal. But lying is another thing. Glad now you are free from that one who doesn't deserve you. Hope now you find the right one!
nicole FAN I was dating a guy and he did this. I confronted him saying why are you liking all these gi Ka pics with low cleavage ? His answer was 'we are just friends' I don't date him anymore. Not of that reason but that he was a lying scum.
Yes I think liking other women's sexy pics is disrespectful. Maybe this is just me having unrealistic standards but it comes down to the good old fashion golden rule. Most men don't want to see their girlfriends frequently liking or commenting on other attractive men's social media.
There's a little more leeway with celebrities but still, if your boyfriend was a skinny, non athletic type and you were obsessed with David Beckham that might make him feel a little insecure.
At the end of the day it's all just very childish. Good Lord, I hope to find a man that has better things to do.
My answer to that pic liking thing:
- notice and live with the fact, that there are other (goodlooking) woman in this world
- remember that he chose me for who I am (and outer beauty is only one reason)
- live happily ever after.
will answer and say that it means nothing, it's just a fantasy, a women they would never meet but let's say the girlfreind takes similar provactic pictures all of sudden it becomes a problem. Though the men liking the gf pic are men who meant nothing, men she would never see or meet etc. I guarrateed most guys would get pissed off lol
I don't even know why anybody likes bikini/nude pics of strangers on social media... It's almost like using that share button on porn sites :D
You are right, It's not respectful if he does like (almost) nude pics all the time... But there are woman who freak out, if he likes any pic some female person posted (like of their dog or something). That's not respectful either.
In some cirsumtances, certainly! But I would also say Kelly it can be his insecurities can be coming through. There's no question that there ARE men who do this to feel more secure, get attention, etc... that's why I love the idea of helping your man know his own intent and recognise his insecurities.
The very notion of "taking a break" from the one you love is often times misinterpreted as a somewhat cowardly way of ending the relationship without stating so bluntly for public consumption. In fact, what some refer to as ones "need for space from the partner" does appear to be a legitimate cry for just that -- space . It turns out that its not just men who crave solitude and withdraw into that dark room to spend quiet time inside their so-called man cave .
In this day and age, the traditional stigma that has long accompanied a couples decision to take a break from their relationship is gradually fading as a thing of the past. Its become increasingly clear that deciding to give each other space does not necessarily equal breaking up in the direct sense of the term. At times, it can be a healthy option -- that is, of course, depending on how it is that one or both of the partners plan to spend their individual time apart.
Based on my humble experience, Ive come to discover eight simple advantages that go hand in hand with this difficult yet (more often than not) mutually beneficial decision for two people to step aside and regroup.
If the good old AAA (Apology, Affection and a promise of Action) fails to work, and a quick fix a la "sorry" and "I love you" turns out to be nothing more but a momentary band-aid, you know taking a break may just be the answer.
Stepping aside and finding yourself can be vital, especially after years of coexisting in a committed, long-term relationship.
Give yourself and your partner the opportunity to let your heart(s) grow fonder. Ever miss the feeling of actually missing your other half? An emotion well worth revisiting, thats for sure!