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Do you ever think to yourself, "What To Do When He Likes Another Girls Insta Pics?” “when bae likes another girl's pic?” or “What to do if boyfriend is liking another girls photos?”
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A dating advice question I get asked a lot by women is "Mark, my boyfriend is liking other girls photos, what to do?” and “my boyfriend is liking other girls on instagram?” and “what to do when he likes another girls pics?”.
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There’s a question I get ask a lot that I haven’t yet addressed on this channel – it’s what to do when your partner likes another girls Instagram or Facebook photos. It can be an incredibly dicey and difficult question to deal with and it’s a brand-new relationship problem that has never previously existed before this generation… So how to handle it when your boyfriend is liking other girls on Instagram and what to do when he likes another girls Instagram photos? I’ve got Jermia Turner in with me to show you exactly how.
Where is the line? How do you know when your boyfriend crosses the line between normal Instagram scrolling (which would be ridiculous to ask him to stop) to disrespectfully ‘liking’ other girl’s photos (which is perfectly reasonable to ask him to stop). Can he like another girl’s photos and what do you do when he likes another girls photos on Facebook? I’ve got Jermia Turner back acting with me to show you what can be done!
When a woman comes to me saying "Mark, what to do if he likes another girls instagram pics?” or “Mark, what to do when bae likes another girl's pics?” and “How to handle it when he likes another girls photo?” my first thought is "Great question. This woman wants to deal with the problems in her relationship, rather than pushing them under the rug. It’s important in these situations to be able to identify what her standards are, what defines respect and what constitutes her own insecurities that are taking things too far”.
In this dating advice video from Make Him Yours, I (Mark Rosenfeld, dating and relationships coach with Jermia Turner, make him yours mastercoach) am describing what to do when he likes another girls instagram pics and how to handle it when your partner likes another girls Facebook pics. It’s not easy when your boyfriend is liking other girls pics on Instagram, but how to know if it is disrespecting your relationship? To complicate things further, this is going to be different in every relationship with different things working for different couples. Thus, what I present in this video is a way that can work for all couples to communicate over this tricky situation.
This is an important video on relationships and the difficult conversations you have to have in them. Because these problems didn’t exist even 15 years ago, these are challenges couples are going through that have never existed before. The question is, how to handle it? When bae likes another girls photo, what do you do? What to do when he likes another girls pics? Liking another girls picture – what do you say?
This dating and relationships dating advice video with mark Rosenfield and Jermia Turner is my comprehensive guide to what to do when he likes another girls insta pics. How to know the difference between respect in your own relationship and your own insecurities and can he likes another girls photo without it being demeaning to you? If your boyfriend is liking other girls photos and liking another girls picture on Instagram, I’ve got this video with Jermia Turner happening to show you what you need to do. I hope you like the video on What To Do When He Likes Another Girls Insta Pics and what to do when your Boyfriend Is Liking Other Girls Photos.
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Girlfriends need to seriously chill out over booty pics period I’m not watching her activity but I’m babysat it’s annoying
I watch porn and that’s okay but liking a damn booty pic is not it’s the same thing
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Hi guys so I’ve been feeling so uncomfortable about my bf liking girls pics on Instagram. I don’t care about the models and celebrities but he likes sexy pics of his friends. One time I asked him if he liked girls pics and he said he never. I don’t have social media so I believed him but I checked him out one time using my friends Instagram and he was in fact doing that. Then another time there was a girl who asked for his number at a party and he said no because he had a girlfriend. A couple days later he told me that she had followed him on Instagram because they new each other’s families. However he never told me that he was liking all of her pics. He never told me that he followed her back and took the time to look through all of her pics and like them. She did the same thing. I feel like that is sketchy but maybe I’m crazy?
8:12 - 10:46 is laughable! No guy will just agree to what she said with no further discussion. In reality they will get defensive and turn it all around on their girlfriend/wife and call us insecure and get over it, I'm not going to stop liking their photos and or communicating with these females. Especially when the girl hes liking and chatting with is an ex. Its the worst feeling in the world knowing tha you arent important enough to let all these past girlfriends go. If I had done the exact same thing, he would have kicked me to the curb right away....:'(
I strongly disagree on a lot of this.
I think the intention behind him liking or following other women is the awful part.
So we have to be the one to reward them for communicating? How about him apologizing for his bad behavior.
The problem here is the women tolerate this shit way too much. And men brush it off like it’s not a big deal.
Obviously he will be attracted to other women, and that is okay. However, walking down the sidewalk and seeing an attractive person and going on with your day is a lot different than making it publicly transparent of that attraction by taking the time out of your day to double tap someone’s photo. I don’t want to know who else he finds attractive, especially if they’re friends. It DOES cause problems in relationships even when the relationship is in good standing.
what about if your guy is adding girls only girl he knows and lives in his area, got their numbers and keep following them on social media? its another story when the guy like people picture he doesnt know but girls that he is in contact with is different right? what is behind this behaviour?
I tried this conversation thing like 3 months ago. My bf is just some different kind of satan I guess. He became super mad at me for coming up to him in a way he tought he could help, but when he heard what Its about he just attacked me with some harsh words saying he is not going to change in some way ,, just because it would make me feel better “ i pointed out that my feelings are important and he cant make it as important as the need to like every damn pic. He said I just need to deal with the fact hes not doing anything wrong...its been a constant fight eversince, oh and the liking never stopped. I watched a lot of these videos about relationships when I used to be single but now Im in a relationship again my thoughts and emotions are so out of control that I dont know how to deal with this shit. 😑
It is vital to be much more specific when addressing boundaries for social media. I like this video and its tips. I know a lot of my own insecurities are involved in my problems with a guy's likes; however, social media IS a portal to trouble. When I like a pic of another guy who I don't know, the next thing is a follow request, then a comment, then a DM, then an attempt to find out if I am available...then to find out if I am willing to cheat. Women are exactly the same with men on social media, brazen and full of alterior motives. So, with the men I date, I try to be VERY specific. Likes may be something I willing to tolerate within reason, but there MUST be a clear line that uber commenting, DMs, perpetual likes, super naked likes...it is all just unnecessary. Also, in attempting to grapple with the part that is my own insecurity, I have found it helpful to like a pic or two of hot guys myself, just to see how trivial it is and that I would NEVER leave my man or pursue something with some hot stranger just because I liked a pic on his Insta.
I don´t like the fact that this is in some way telling women to just cope with the fact that some men are just douches….And I love to watch that actually he is the insecure one…..and you all know why I say this, just making an obvious point
My man has been liking girls pictures throughout our relationship from the beginning he’s been adding girls he doesn’t even know while he’s been with me , when I question him about it he then starts shouting and nit picks at my faults instead of giving me an explanation to why he’s sending friends requests to girls who are half naked and he’s never met . He’s deleting messages on Facebook and giving more attention to these girls than me when I make an effort to look appealing he doesn’t even notice but yet he’s constantly looking at other girls . I feel like he’s just with me because he can’t get anyone els
Im beautiful and fun and I have never had a sense of insecurity in my life. I have very high standards and that in itself shows the opposite of insecurity. This man seems nice BUT he isnt someone who I agree with or would take advice from. Any man who likes to spend his free time liking other womens provocative photos is a tad too immature for my taste. Its just my personal standards. I wouldnt want to be in a relationship where a man feels the need to tell someone theyre attractive bu liking photos like a 13 year old boy. Looking is one thing...liking is running along the lines of creepy. I dumped a guy for this and dont regret it as turns out I was right decision for me. Follow your instincts. Dont put up with creepy men.
If you want real advice go to Matthew Hussey as he did a video on this about he tweets other girls. He has much better advice.
If he likes even ONE semi naked woman's picture - he is not for me. Why? Because - although there is natural attraction to other woman, a mature gentleman must learn to contain that and love his woman by principle. It's absolutely disrespectful. Whether it's the worst thing that happened or not--- I'd move on gracefully without kicking up a fuss.
Sure. I only Like pics on insta with guys that have 6 packs and HUGE front packages in their underwear and speedos. I'll go back again and again to the same guys and Like all of them, especially if I know them personally. Why would my bf be insecure about that 😒
Great video, I have the same situation since 6 years and exactly the same conversation afterwards. Still did not find a better solution besides accepting it. It got better a bit but only because „bad me“ told him the issue with respect. :/
my boyfriend always likes other woman's instagram pics, and talked to a few of them on instagram and facebook while he was talking to me. He was dirty talking to some girl for a long time like almost all the time he was talking to me. The worst of it was that this girl has been engaged to some guy for almost 7 years. He told me he was just trolling, but then again he never told me. He gets pissed off when I bring the fact that he did that so I try not to bring it up. He drags me down most of the time, and I try to change or him.. Eat less so he can like me better, so I can look closer to what he's into. I quit college and moved with him and in the pas months feel like I've adapted certain habits (drinking alcohol everyday) that he's had for years, but I would do anything just so that he can look at me like he looks and talks to those girls on instagram and facebook.
Respecting your partner, is NOT even needing to add sexy girls on Instagram. If you ask me. It's as disrespectful as having a girl come over to your house and pose in front of him while you are there. It takes away the lust & passion he has for you- his partner. He is focusing minutes to hrs. On other random girls when he could..j should be transferring that time into you. Quality time. Most girls would think a guy was only with them, because at the time it was easy to get you. And they couldn't find any better looking girls so they feel obligated to stay with you. No girl wants to feel like a guy is with her out of convenience. Would you like it if your dad was liking pics of bikini clad girls, would you feel that was respectful. Probably not at all.
All he looks at pictures he collect pictures in his naked women pictures in his he likes big butts and big tits I mean I look good myself for my age really I get a lot of attention but I'm not looking for attention from other men I'm looking for my attention for my for my man I want attention from him but he don't look at pictures he's really talkin to somebody video calling they see each other's by video call
I tried to talk to him I said look babe I love you and I just want your attention you pay attention to that phone looking at naked women I tried to talk to him I said look babe I love you and I just want your attention you pay attention to that phone looking at naked women you got a beautiful woman right here he'll laugh and say you trip too much that's why I don't want to be in a relationship with a woman that's got insecure problems with herself but I don't have insecure problems with myself I'm just telling him he's disrespecting me twerking having sex phone s******** sex with other women
Last time he looking at Nikki woman's on this internet called Tango the woman was sexually feeling her body with no clothes on and I was in my bed and he was on the bed looking at naked women fondling with their self you can hear the woman moaning and calling his name and I'm laying right in the bed with him and I told him that's disrespect why would you do something like that and he said you're tripping he told me when he was younger he was used to having two women sleeping with him at the same time he said I used to be a player a pimp and I had two of my baby's mom beside me
If you guys aren't in an open relationship, I would consider that DEFINITE cheating. Being on a video call with a completely naked girl playing with herself and calling his name is cheating in my book.
He got locksonline his phone he got locks on his phone so you can't get in it locks on his pictures locked all kinds of what he got like three four locks and he still takes his phone wherever he goes and goes to the bathroom he takes his phone he goes to the store he takes his phone and if I'm cleaning the house and walking around next to his phone which I'm not thinking about looking at he'll say what are you trying to look at my phone don't go over there or like when I'm going out when I come in the house he'll take his phone and throw it under the pillow and you can see that he's nervous all up in his face ain't got a camera on his phone he said I don't know if that's true I know you can download stuff like that but he says that it'll take a picture of me if I touch it and he'll know it's me but I don't understand if he got a camera on his phone and it'll take a picture of me if I touch it then why he takes his phone everywhere he goes and even sleeps with the phone next to him so I won't touch it
Oh he sticks to one certain I seen half of it the picture when he was looking at her and smiling at her picture he didn't notice I seen him he thought I was in the room and then Late Night Calls sitting up talking to a woman from 6 in the morning tell Evan in the morning almost in the evening he says it's one of his family he's talking to I say you should have a good conversation with your sister I never seen a sister and brother have so much laughter in conversation with each other the way he was laughing I wake up early in the morning 5 he's texting somebody he said it's his cousin texting him that late in the morning I know he's lying
My boyfriend spends always on Instagram I even caught him looking at a woman behind on a video chat dedicating songs to the woman sending pictures of his private and of his self fully dressed doing video singing song sending love songs to her he sits up all night long to the morning and talk to her he doesn't pay me any mind then when I ask him he gets mad cusses me out tells me stop being insecure stop being jealous I'm not jealous or insecure he doesn't pay me no mind one time I went out and I recorded him having sex video sex with another woman like you can hear her moaning and groaning and you can hear him talk into her telling her smack her behind then when I confront him he gets really mad and tell me I'm crazy I have to beg him to have sex with me I asked him I said why you don't have sex with me he says you know I'm in my sixties I can't really do that like I used to do when I was younger I'm 54 and I'm very sexually active fire is that I don't have no problem with having sex I'm sexually active with one partner which is him and when went in the bed and having sex he claimed mix really fast and I don't get to enjoy the sex I don't understand why he goes to other women on video and do sex with over the phone with them I try to talk to him I tried to laugh with him I try to be fun with him I even got sexy and put on some lace godderz let my let my hair hang down long red lipstick and put some heels on and started dancing the way them women dance he told me sit my old ass down and stop trying to act young I was only giving him what he's looking for
Can I apply this to my girlfriend? She’s been liking another guys selfies constantly. I wouldn’t have a problem with this, but in the past this same problem occurred and it turned out that she was going behind my back with another man. We broke up after that, not now we’re back together. I brought this up to her about this “new guy” and she got very defensive about it. Even after I brought it up she’s still doing it. Should I be concerned? Or, should I bring it back up? Need help!!!!!
Freudian slip? My boyfriend of two years (living together) called me Sally one night. My name is Suzy, very similar. I ended up talking to Sally within in two weeks when she called his phone and I checked our phone bill! He is a pathological liar and cheater! We set him up on a three-way call and nailed him.
hi mark I been seeing this guy for a tho month now were long distance
he has been liking over girls photos who live in hes area I can not help the jealously I feel hahah we have been being exclusive to each over but we're hes liking these womens photos who live in hes area should i be concerned he is doing more then liking there pics
Uggh! Remind me of my babys daddy, totally disrespectful to our relationship years ago. Yet still think he can try to get come in and out in his son's life, that's no respect for his own son! Which is why I've blocked him completely, I'd rather deal with him at the court. Regret that I even put his name on the cert.
I strongly disagree. Liking other girl's pictures (if she is not a family member or a close friend) is disrespectful to the woman the guy is with. Even more so, if these are bikini pictures. Guys, come on! It has nothing to do with my insecurities. I know that my man will be attracted to other women, but he doesn't need to let me know that. He can see a girl and think ''wow, she is beautiful'', but telling me that?? Hell no. It is the same with liking a pic, it is something I can see (and other people for that matter). And if these are explicit pictures, it is responding to someone's sexual energy. To all the girls that don't like when their guy likes other girls' pics: you are not crazy, it is not just ''your insecurities''. Demand respect, because if you don't, guys will think that they can do whatever they want, even disrecpecting you. Girls that pretend that they don't have a problem with their guy liking other girls' pics, are so called ''cool girls''. They pretend they are cool with whatever, bc they are afraid of being labeled as ''insecure'', ''clingy'' and stuff like that. These are the same girls that will be ''cool'' if the guy goes out with his mates on New Year's because she is sick in bed and cannot leave the house. Don't be that girl.
TheMrsShephard Thank you! I hate how this guy basically tells you, oh it's just you being insecure and that you should basically beg your man to not publicly disrespect you. I'm not a prude, I have no problem with my man watching porn or being attracted to celebrities/ models etc (as long as it's within reason and also not tacky Insta "models") however if he is constantly liking the pics of other girls, who he knows personally & are not family or close friends then that is unacceptable. The bar is so low for men nowadays because they are allowed to get away with these kinds of things. Also because unfortunately, they are spoiled for choice. Too many thirsty women & less & less straight men.
You wouldn't care if your man went out with his mates on new years's while you are sick in bed with nobody to take care of you? Really? I think you are also a victim of a ''cool girl'' concept. Yes, we are all different. But some ways of living life ARE wrong. I'm sorry... but I am sick of political correctness and the fact we are not able to tell someone that what they do is not right. I loooove men, but I am all for women empowerment and I hate when women are underestimated and treated without respect. When my girlfriends tell me about their relationship problems, I stright up tell them sometimes ''Leave him... what he did was awful. He doesn't deserve you. You can do so much better than that''(if the situation calls for that obvs). And I expect them to do the same for me. If I was like ''oh girl, just be you, everybody's different'' her situation wouldn't improve. We still live in a man's world, and if we don't stand up for ourselves, this will not change. I just find that women sometimes dig their own grave. And if that affected only them, cool. But that's rarely the case. Because what a guy learns in one relationship and thinks is right, he carries on to the next one. It is like faking an orgasm. The man is bad in bed, but was rewarded for it, he thinks his way of doing things work, so he doesn't change it. And the cycle continues. Until one woman finally tells him to do things differently. And I think we, women, owe each other to be that woman that calls him out on it.
Everyone lives their life differently. Everyone has completely different boundaries of what they deem acceptable. This is your truth and I respect that, in the same way that frankly, not only would I not mind if my boyfriend liked another girls pictures (within reason) I also wouldn't care if my boyfriend went out with the boys on new years eve while I was sick... and that's okay. That doesn't make either one of us better or worse than the other, only different - the world is made up of polar opposites, it's what makes things interesting. Let's just appreciate that not everyone is the same and that we need to build each other up and not force our individual standards upon anyone :)
Hi Mark i know my husband from last 10 years and we r married from last 6 years and now we have a 3 year old daughter, few months back he went out with his two female friends and he left house in the morning and came back late evening so i shouted at him or may be u can say i was insecure. After our argument he told me he doesn't want to talk to me and he don't love me anymore and their is no place for me in his heart and he is with me only because of our daughter so now i am very confused i really don't understand what to do i mean from last 10 years we never had a fight so it's really very painful as he's so rude with me, he doesn't talk nicely i am so stressed, he said he want to leave his own life but i love him very much and cannot think of loosing him pls tell me what i should do i am so confused and shocked to see him changed.....
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I see how she was lovely, and didn't once accuse him or attack. Her whole tone was awesome. However, I also saw her doing all the work, most of the talking, and ultimately I didnt see them agree on or clarify what is acceptable. How was this a mutual vulnerable conversation? Not trying to be snarky, I really am asking sincerely.
Thanks Lily, great questions. I was trying to play the most unhelpful character possible here just to show the audience how as the woman (if the guy is uncooperative) you can still make it work. Hopefully the guy is a lot more help than this.
And obviously, the conversation about respect follows. That's another topic for another video, but it's basically about making sure you're on the same side together and then agreeing to define 'respect' as a couple so you can both reign the other in if there is problems, but also speaking realistically about not holding in the reigns too tightly and getting past your own insecurities.
Hi Mark, I have a question...There is this man I know from an organization I belong to who every time he sees me, he stops everything he's doing or talking to and stares at me with this look of frozen fear on his face? I try to smile at him but he doesn't acknowledge, what's up?? It's freaking me out. Thank you
What to do when your bf likes his ex pictures and keep their relationship and trip photos on his social media? It's a total no for me, not allowed. What do you girls think? I personally had to break up with him. I don't trust him.
No matter the fact is that's disrespectful and if its done by him best thing to do is kick his ass to the curb with all his stuff behind him. This happened 6 months ago to me by someone who I just started dating when I saw that I told him he could do want he wanted but I was not willing to invest in a player and I would be on my way. He told me he loves me and they were just their friends he had for many years and since it bothered me he wouldn't do it again and he hasn't. Still together but wished he would drop people that been his ex's and girls he thought we hot on his social sites that message him . Been seriously considering to call it quits and just live as a hermit and close the world out then don't have to worry about other people hurting you .
What do you do when you and your boyfriend have agreed to have a threesome and suddenly since you agreed to it he is obsessed about it always bring it up or talking about it...? How do you deal with that? I’m worried the threesome is going to change our relationship...
You pick the girl. Don't make it a friend. Make clear boundaries. Do it sooner than later. Then tell him to shut the hell up about it...furthermore, if he gets a girl, you should get a guy. That is my rule and boy does it make them think harder about pushing for it! LOL!
I know I'm late to the game, but just know that you have the right to withdraw consent from any sexual activity at an time. Just because you agree to do something now, doesn't mean you have to do it in the future. If this situation feels off (maybe you're having second thoughts about the additional person) or you're not comfortable with having a threesome at all, that is totally valid. If you're boyfriend really values you, he will understand and press no further. If he becomes angry or tries to guilt you into something you don't want to do, it's best to move on and find someone who will respect you and your wishes.
Fantasies are fantasies for a reason - when emotions get involved, or you watch him pay more attention or be more attracted to her - or he wants this all of the time now, I am afraid the relationship may suffer...
Hey Mark. I just need some advice. We have been dating for quite a long time now but sometimes, he acts kinda weird. He goes out with his friends (which is also my friends) but he just hiding it away from me. I am okay with him going out with friends but why is he hiding from me? Also sometimes he forgets about me. He went home without me and when I ask where is he, he said he forgot. It makes me really sad, like I don't really means anything important to him. What should I do
Wow, amazing, well-done guys, really jermia acted as real👍👍👍👍👍👍👍, when the guy likes or seeing another girls photo whether it is normal or not you can understand his behavior if he looking only one photo every day or different if he keeping that photo on his phone or somewhere changing his behavior and so on when you suspect that there is something wrong, you can ask like jermia did yet, but just looking girls photos is normal when the guy is handsome like mark every girl likes to see not you don't love your boyfriend or husband ahahahahah that is normal.
Hmmm...normally love the advice, content and acting...but not with this one. She acted like an unsure, scared, beaten down women...so many pauses...like she was walking on eggshells...Too much work! Too much like a game...kiss him to "reward" him sharing a simple feeling? Nah, not your Mom...or raising a puppy
Hey Mark, I really love your videos! :) I am a college student and I’ve never really dated any guys. Do you have any tips for girls who are starting in their dating life? Or when is the correct time to start looking for a partner? Love you ❤️
Ha! Jermia, so you saw Mark looking at my bikini pictures, that's how you know my name!?! 😉 yeah just be glad he can look. I had a blind bf once, he would feel up other women to 'see' what they look like. Jermia - Awesome acting I totally believed it! Mark thanks for not liking my topless pics! That would be totally disrespectful to on-screen gf Jermia 😂😂 Disclaimer: I just totally made all that up for laughs. Forgive my sense of humour for those who find it offensive. Great performance and content as usual that last statement is not a joke! Xoxo
Actually, the fact that he would be attracted to other women, fantasize about them, imagine sex with them is painful. It hurts regardless of the way I'm trying to justify it, to understand it. So I have a question, Mark, I wanted to ask already for a long time. Do you belive that love can last the whole life, that a couple can be faithful their whole life and at the same time not frustrated or unsatisfied? Assuming it's a good relationship generally and the sex is good too, they can make most of their fantasies come true etc. Because actually if my man would crave for other women, imagine them all the time, masturabte to their pics and fantasize about them, but not act only because he wants to be fair to me, that would be actually very sad, that wouldn't probably make sense. I want him to be faithful because he is genuinely still attracted to me, because I'm the most sexy and beautiful for him. If not, and if he wouldn't betray me only because he'd think it'd be immoral, it doesn't make much sense. It wouldn't be love anymore, it'd be a contract.
So I want to ask if you belive in neverending genuinely passionate love?
Thank you, Mark and Jermia. You acted that in a great way. It's really helpful. And your suggestion to consider where my insecurity comes from, why actually it bothers me is really important. I'll try to figure it out. Although I'm talking theoretically, because I didn't notice any activity like that by my boyfriend, but still his social media interactions keep me on my toes. I think it's a really tough topic.
I wouldn't tolerate that kind of behaviour if my man would like on Instgram or Facebook bikini pics or other pics made openly sexy on puropose, regardless if celebrity, random girls or friends. Even if he watches that kind of photos from time to time (if too often, then I guess he has a problem with himself), he shouldn't like it, because it's like telling publicly in front of many people and me: "Hey people, I think that this girl is super sexy". If he ever said something like that in front of me and a group of friends or other people on a street or at a party, I'd consider that disrespectful, I'd feel humiliated. And social media is kind of like saying that. Maybe not so strong, but it's definitely like saying something publicly. And I'm always watching which photos on Facebook he likes and which he loves or wows. Some people say, come on it's just Facebook, but as far as I learned Facebook can tell you a LOT if you know how to read it. It's probably the same with Insta, although I don't use it.
Hey Mark! I've to congratulate you and Jermia for this video. This is a topic it's being in my mind lately. For me is super weird following or liking unknow people pictures specially if you're already dating someone. The guy I like it's being doing this a lot lately and It freaks me out! It's weird because even though we're not together we have a great conexion and actually the people around us act like there is something really deep going on between us. My question is ¿ can be someone doing this kind of stuff just to make the other person react and finally make a move? Thanks in advanced!!
Trust & mutual respect are the biggest factors I look for in a relationship. Being attracted to others on either side is of course normal. I've not had to deal with this particular situation, but there is a point of crossing the line on social media. I would hope that at regular intervals checking in with your partner & redefining a relationship, or having a jiggle about with things to accommodate each others needs during its progress to make sure that both people are happy with how the relationship is going is key and paramount to a healthy 'growth chart' so to speak. So whether it's this issue or another, just keeping the channels of vocabulary always open and respecting your partner enough to bring any concerns or insecurities to the table. Nothing good can come from keeping things bottled up. Openness, sharing, trust and mutual respect is I believe the basis & key to a mutually successful relationship. This was a great, in depth & thorough video Mark. Thank you.
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Guess iam the only man that comments your videos haha :) lol :D . I think it's natural human behaviour ... we do that in a way to get our needs met by our partner , i've done that ... i admit by talking with my ex girlfriend about other girls that were flirting with me , when she reacted made me feel validated ( through time and experience i stopped doing that . ) ... Also girls tried to make me jealous many times by posting old pictures with guy friends ''very intimate'' with them .. just in the moment that we were getting closer. I think when we see our partner reacting made us feel that they really care about us ... ( but it's not the most mature behaviour to have ... talking about it like the video suggests it's a good choice and be resolving the issue can get the couple close to each other , creating a deeper bond. ) . Btw id like to make a suggestion ... talk about open relationships mark , i would like to hear your perspective about that . ( i see that the number of people considering that is increasing ... but i never been in a open relationship so i don't know how it works ... i mean really loving a girl and be in a open relationship.)
Yes a true match is soo beautiful , it creates an aura that people are drawn and surprised by it :) , a rare thing that i believe once the world started healing it will appear more often . Thanks for your suggestion i will check it out :) , pleasure talking with you too. All the best Sheila <3
A beautiful and very true sentiment. We are completely different as feminine and masculine personalities to enhance each other's energies in my opinion. A true match is a beautiful thing. Mark is a wonderful, relatable speaker and certain parts of him remind me of the talented & wonderful Tony Robbins. If you've never watched a video or read his book, I highly recommend Matthew Hussey. You can check him out on YouTube too, he's been doing this for years & moves in to the world of life coaching through his relationship advice too. Check him out, I think you might like him. He started off about 13yrs ago, I think as a young man. He's self taught and highly intelligent & inspiring as Mark is. Great to chat to you : )
Hi Sheila thanks for the encouragement . I like to see things from differents perspectives and i like to learn with everybody . Mark is a pioneer in these segment so i appreciate the work he's doing and will support his work. I always loved the feminine essence , i always related better to woman than man ... so seeing things from the woman perspective it open our eyes for many things . I truly believe in the equality of genders knowing that , each have a important and different function but man is not better than woman and woman is not better than man . Masculine and feminine energy combined together is a powerful force that can move mountains and change world <3 <3 <3
mark jonesz Hi Mark, I think it's great that another man watches Mark's videos. I will also watch videos meant for men. I think it gives you a whole range of concepts to consider when looking for a healthy relationship. Someone like you will be the better informed going in to a long lasting relationship in the future. I love that you're doing your homework : ) a woman you meet further down the line will certainly reap the benefits.
That lady in ur video is so insecure either she's not confident or has issues lol. Her voice is totally annoying acts like a brat lol It's not the guys problem that he likes pics but she needs to get over herself.
I would add to the conversation at some point that it is easy for things to start out innocent and then take a turn because we all like to get attention especially if we are going through a vulnerable time. There are always a few women just sort of standing to the side or being interlopers because they like what they see in a man. Many times the man might not even realize that the woman has ulterior motives or he might think this is just innocent flirting I will be able to stop this before it gets out of control. Women have to be careful about the same thing too because there are always a few men waiting too. If people come with a guidelines than there is less time spent on arguing and more time spent on just enjoying each other.
The very notion of "taking a break" from the one you love is often times misinterpreted as a somewhat cowardly way of ending the relationship without stating so bluntly for public consumption. In fact, what some refer to as ones "need for space from the partner" does appear to be a legitimate cry for just that -- space . It turns out that its not just men who crave solitude and withdraw into that dark room to spend quiet time inside their so-called man cave .
In this day and age, the traditional stigma that has long accompanied a couples decision to take a break from their relationship is gradually fading as a thing of the past. Its become increasingly clear that deciding to give each other space does not necessarily equal breaking up in the direct sense of the term. At times, it can be a healthy option -- that is, of course, depending on how it is that one or both of the partners plan to spend their individual time apart.
Based on my humble experience, Ive come to discover eight simple advantages that go hand in hand with this difficult yet (more often than not) mutually beneficial decision for two people to step aside and regroup.
If the good old AAA (Apology, Affection and a promise of Action) fails to work, and a quick fix a la "sorry" and "I love you" turns out to be nothing more but a momentary band-aid, you know taking a break may just be the answer.
Stepping aside and finding yourself can be vital, especially after years of coexisting in a committed, long-term relationship.
Give yourself and your partner the opportunity to let your heart(s) grow fonder. Ever miss the feeling of actually missing your other half? An emotion well worth revisiting, thats for sure!