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What To Do When He Likes Another Girls Insta Pics | Boyfriend Is Liking Other Girls Photos Join me LIVE! www.makehimyours.com.au/secrets-of-men-2018/ Do you ever think to yourself, "What To Do When He Likes Another Girls Insta Pics?” “when bae likes another girl's pic?” or “What to do if boyfriend is liking another girls photos?” These 12 Texts will Make Him Yours: www.bit.ly/MHYText A dating advice question I get asked a lot by women is "Mark, my boyfriend is liking other girls photos, what to do?” and “my boyfriend is liking other girls on instagram?” and “what to do when he likes another girls pics?”. Join the Facebook group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/766326563553359/ There’s a question I get ask a lot that I haven’t yet addressed on this channel – it’s what to do when your partner likes another girls Instagram or Facebook photos. It can be an incredibly dicey and difficult question to deal with and it’s a brand-new relationship problem that has never previously existed before this generation… So how to handle it when your boyfriend is liking other girls on Instagram and what to do when he likes another girls Instagram photos? I’ve got Jermia Turner in with me to show you exactly how. Where is the line? How do you know when your boyfriend crosses the line between normal Instagram scrolling (which would be ridiculous to ask him to stop) to disrespectfully ‘liking’ other girl’s photos (which is perfectly reasonable to ask him to stop). Can he like another girl’s photos and what do you do when he likes another girls photos on Facebook? I’ve got Jermia Turner back acting with me to show you what can be done! When a woman comes to me saying "Mark, what to do if he likes another girls instagram pics?” or “Mark, what to do when bae likes another girl's pics?” and “How to handle it when he likes another girls photo?” my first thought is "Great question. This woman wants to deal with the problems in her relationship, rather than pushing them under the rug. It’s important in these situations to be able to identify what her standards are, what defines respect and what constitutes her own insecurities that are taking things too far”. In this dating advice video from Make Him Yours, I (Mark Rosenfeld, dating and relationships coach with Jermia Turner, make him yours mastercoach) am describing what to do when he likes another girls instagram pics and how to handle it when your partner likes another girls Facebook pics. It’s not easy when your boyfriend is liking other girls pics on Instagram, but how to know if it is disrespecting your relationship? To complicate things further, this is going to be different in every relationship with different things working for different couples. Thus, what I present in this video is a way that can work for all couples to communicate over this tricky situation. This is an important video on relationships and the difficult conversations you have to have in them. Because these problems didn’t exist even 15 years ago, these are challenges couples are going through that have never existed before. The question is, how to handle it? When bae likes another girls photo, what do you do? What to do when he likes another girls pics? Liking another girls picture – what do you say? This dating and relationships dating advice video with mark Rosenfield and Jermia Turner is my comprehensive guide to what to do when he likes another girls insta pics. How to know the difference between respect in your own relationship and your own insecurities and can he likes another girls photo without it being demeaning to you? If your boyfriend is liking other girls photos and liking another girls picture on Instagram, I’ve got this video with Jermia Turner happening to show you what you need to do. I hope you like the video on What To Do When He Likes Another Girls Insta Pics and what to do when your Boyfriend Is Liking Other Girls Photos. Enjoy the video guys! This is Mark Rosenfeld, dating and relationships coach from Make Him Yours **Click below to SUBSCRIBE to my channel for more videos: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCj43... Join the conversation on Facebook: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/howtomakehim... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/makehimyours/ Snapchat: MarkRosenfeld Mark Rosenfeld is the Australian dating and relationship coach for women and the founder of Make Him Yours, a dating advice and relationship advice service empowering women to find the love they desire. Want to watch more? Here’s The Top 7 Ways To Turn Him On - https://youtu.be/_hHj3J2JRPM -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "How To Have WAY More Fun On Dates & Stop Wasting Time On Dating" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAQNK7oMz0k -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
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Honestly, this might be the reason why I’m losing interest on a guy. I try not to, but it’s just something that makes me run away. Sorry. Just not my preference.
Vrilla (9 days ago)
Mark, thank you for all your videos… You are awesome! I have a question, what should a girl do when your husband flirts with every single girl he sees and he does it in front of me no problem? He is very talkative but I believe it is not ok to flirt w other girls when you are married. Am I crazy that it annoys me so much? I mean, he probably doesn’t have bad intentions… but I never do that with guys. Should I talk to him? What should I do?… I don’t want to seem insecure. Can you make a video about this, please, please?
M Henderson (10 days ago)
Hi Mark, There's a few of us ladies on here in a long distance relationship/ situationships and from my recent experience of this I approached him in the best way I could and told him it makes me uncomfortable, especially since these women are in his area. His response was "that's what Instagram is for" but to me, it comes across as shady, disrespectful and thirsty. And as we're having an intimate conversation, he'll be liking away or when I go to bed that's when he starts liking these girls posts. How do you know when to draw the line for yourself with this stuff as it puts me in the worst mood not knowing what his real intention is with liking these photos. As someone who gets people sliding into my DMs on the regular it's hard to tell if he's not doing the same. Thinking it's just far easier to be single, ladies!
Sara Rusi (10 days ago)
This is BS, when you open up and show you're vulnerable they EAT YOU ALIVE
Yih Herng Hew (13 days ago)
That’s why you have a few accounts.
ieattastyfood (15 days ago)
I dont care if its a random celebrity or porn star. I just care if hes liking every pic of a girl that he sees regularly in everyday life, it makes me feel insecure.. And i told him that but he doesnt care
Rodali Bora (23 days ago)
But why do they stalk girls more and waste time on them? This really hits me and makes me insecure and I feel like I'm still lacking behind giving him that love and attention and that's why he is looking at other girl. Instead they can give that time to us right? And why it's always the women who needs to work? If they really love us, why can't they change? Why we? I still do talk with him calmly and even if I start this conversation, he would change it into fight where else I'm just simply asking so that I don't feel insecure. That's hurting 😓
Maureen Marie (24 days ago)
If your woman isn't comfortable she isn't change or leave her don't let her have to answer stupid questions from friends and family that gon make her cry. If something doesn't make you happy don't force it
Stephanie James Keenan (1 month ago)
My boyfriend had 50 to 100s of instead girls pics saved on his phone... all with their ass out or in a bikini even half naked... I called him out and he said he’s just used to being single so “I’ll stop” then he started hiding them in a hidden album... I never look through bfs phones and I just felt something was off and what do you know again he’s back at it but not saving he’s just liking all these chicks photos like all of them... I don’t know if I’m so completely insecure but fuck it sure is making me... I don’t know if I should bring up the likes on photos... but I just feel like I don’t want to take all the eye candy away so sure go ahead and look whatever! But liking every damn photo and I’ve never liked a dudes pic since we been together. Ugh help me ladies!!! He’s the biggest gentleman but is he being that way because he’s so flirtatious to other women?
ivoryvignettes (2 months ago)
At this point I don't know if it's my own insecurity really. They can look without liking 30 pics of her in a row and we all know dudes try to do this to initiate contact with her lol and it's super cringy to be a grown guy and like slutty pictures online - what does a guy get out of liking (which is passively reposting; people do see your likes in a timeline)?
Anne Link (2 months ago)
I mean you can look, why you hiting on them, sending hearts? Its like you saying your available. Its like winking at another girl in public. Public place to show interest in others, saved for everyone to see. Pssh. I never did that, until i realize he is doing it. I hate this.
Raptor 8600 (2 months ago)
ok well you kinda said 'you should be greatful' so you deserved that mate
Mark Rosenfeld (2 months ago)
Thanks mate! Glad you liked it. Thanks for watching xx
Amanda (2 months ago)
My bf of 1 year and 4 months has Instagram and likes celebrity girls photos and videos of her like belly dancing and her butt all out. But should I feel mad about him liking any of her stuff? I feel mad about when I see when he likes her stuff but I feel like I shouldn’t be so mad about it since it’s a celeb. But how do I deal with this? And how can I not be so unsecured by this girl?
Mark Rosenfeld (2 months ago)
You shouldn't fret at all. That is something that your bf is just fascinated, no big deal. Try to talk about it and soon you'll understand. Thanks for watching xx
Barbara Brown (2 months ago)
I have had my ex go out with my close family so my bf liking a cousin of mines pictures ( some of them) really make me insecure... I wanna go with the communication think but I want to be sure I’m not overreacting
Barbara Brown (2 months ago)
Mark Rosenfeld thank you. I talked to him about it and it was pretty much how you answered in your video, he said there was nothing to it, and that we could talk about anything that bothers me, that he’s always ready to listen! I’m glad I followed your advice! Thank you ☺️
Mark Rosenfeld (2 months ago)
Certainly Barbara if that's something you feel is charged for you and promoting an unfair overreaction on your part, coming to a place of gratitude for that previous event will help you a lot. Message me via [email protected] if you'd like to book in a session with me to do that so we can ensure this doesn't ruin your relationship xx
Mary Ellen (2 months ago)
Thank you. Very helpful
Mitziduenas (3 months ago)
I did let my bad know what bothers me. We been together for 4 years, living together but 5 months ago we were like on and off and for like almost two months we finally broke up and no contact rule and all. Then I saw some messages from him telling other girls a bunch of stuff and even crossing the line with them. He started following a lot of girls. Okay , we ended up getting back together and it does bother me that he’s still with me and he is following and liking and watching the stories of the girls he was talking in a sexual way and all of that. I told him it bothers me because I don’t do that to him or even did that to him. Even tho he was basically single. When I approached him, he made it seem like I was controlling him. And he’s giving me a sense of like he’s preferring other people over me. :( I tried to talk to him in a good way but he doesn’t seem to care he thinks is okay. And i clearly told him this is being an issue iba. Relationship and if he cares he would make an effort. I try to let go but is hard.
Catchyourgucci (3 months ago)
Lmao if a guy ever says a different girl’s name in bed I’m getting tf out of there immediately
Mark Rosenfeld (3 months ago)
😂😂😂
trilliann (3 months ago)
This is painful. Fuck life
trilliann (3 months ago)
+Mark Rosenfeld Sorry 😂😂 The guy I like is into one of those sexy cosplayers who get adored and make money just by showing their bodies and being cute. She seems also a nice person. He's somehow hiding that so it seems quite a serious crush It's just life, there is nothing I can do, I'm not that sexy and he will think about her, lucky her. He's a gentle guy. I will hopefully reincarnate into a peaceful tree and stop being annoying xD
Mark Rosenfeld (3 months ago)
😂😂😂 didnt mean to cause you pain there trilliann
Croxy (3 months ago)
Seeing all this comments make me wanna be alone for the rest of my life lol... he is your bf not your property... why wouldnt he like female friends pics ? Because its disrespectful ? So in order to respect you he has to be your dog ? Fuck no
Egle Valeikaite (3 months ago)
well if you are attracted to others why not go and have an open relationship then
Austin Carter (3 months ago)
Girlfriends need to seriously chill out over booty pics period I’m not watching her activity but I’m babysat it’s annoying I watch porn and that’s okay but liking a damn booty pic is not it’s the same thing
Seqouyah Hill (3 months ago)
This teaching woman to agree to being disrespected
Mark Rosenfeld (3 months ago)
Sorry if you feel that way. Thanks though for watching xx
Supersoacker (3 months ago)
I don’t understand how this guy gives advice without being competent. Like he is not a psychologist so he shouldn’t cross the line of the dating advice
Mark Rosenfeld (3 months ago)
Supersoaker I look at it this way - what gets people results? In the end, all I'm interested in is helping people find Love. If I can prove i can do that, why should I need a piece of paper to share that gift with the world? x
Mwadjuma Mukamfizi (3 months ago)
I had like men pictures but I never even think it’s bad because I don’t care about the other guys who I am not dating !!!i would feel bad if he lik a girl picture if he doesn’t contact them
Dakota (3 months ago)
Same my bf constantly like other girls pics but never liked mine.. dang..the nigga needs to chill.
peaceelias709 (4 months ago)
Hi guys so I’ve been feeling so uncomfortable about my bf liking girls pics on Instagram. I don’t care about the models and celebrities but he likes sexy pics of his friends. One time I asked him if he liked girls pics and he said he never. I don’t have social media so I believed him but I checked him out one time using my friends Instagram and he was in fact doing that. Then another time there was a girl who asked for his number at a party and he said no because he had a girlfriend. A couple days later he told me that she had followed him on Instagram because they new each other’s families. However he never told me that he was liking all of her pics. He never told me that he followed her back and took the time to look through all of her pics and like them. She did the same thing. I feel like that is sketchy but maybe I’m crazy?
Kiah Yoo (4 months ago)
It sucks because it’s not part of my brain chemistry. I legit only think about him. So it sucks to think that he doesn’t equally feel the same way for me. Yah know ?
Victoria Landeira (2 months ago)
If you found out what to do, please share. I feel this way too. I only think about him but he's looking another women and commenting with his friend how much he'd like to fck them. And... the only response i get is... It's not a big deal cause he didnt cheat. Fu ck that shit, you want and LOOK FOR someone who's 100% loyal but you dont want to reach those standards. I can't bear it.
Mrs.JK (4 months ago)
8:12 - 10:46 is laughable! No guy will just agree to what she said with no further discussion. In reality they will get defensive and turn it all around on their girlfriend/wife and call us insecure and get over it, I'm not going to stop liking their photos and or communicating with these females. Especially when the girl hes liking and chatting with is an ex. Its the worst feeling in the world knowing tha you arent important enough to let all these past girlfriends go. If I had done the exact same thing, he would have kicked me to the curb right away....:'(
Mina Arroyo (4 months ago)
I strongly disagree on a lot of this. I think the intention behind him liking or following other women is the awful part. So we have to be the one to reward them for communicating? How about him apologizing for his bad behavior. The problem here is the women tolerate this shit way too much. And men brush it off like it’s not a big deal.
Tanvi Umrigar (12 days ago)
I totally agree with you!!
Hailey Earls (4 months ago)
Obviously he will be attracted to other women, and that is okay. However, walking down the sidewalk and seeing an attractive person and going on with your day is a lot different than making it publicly transparent of that attraction by taking the time out of your day to double tap someone’s photo. I don’t want to know who else he finds attractive, especially if they’re friends. It DOES cause problems in relationships even when the relationship is in good standing.
Amanda Kohberger (2 months ago)
I agree with you!!!
Sandra Maaiez (5 months ago)
Ma che cazzo dici 😒😒
Sandra Maaiez (5 months ago)
+Mark Rosenfeld seriamente quello che dici no sens proprio ....
Mark Rosenfeld (5 months ago)
Sorry you didn't like the content Sandra. Appreciate you taking the time to watch regardless.
Chane B (5 months ago)
what about if your guy is adding girls only girl he knows and lives in his area, got their numbers and keep following them on social media? its another story when the guy like people picture he doesnt know but girls that he is in contact with is different right? what is behind this behaviour?
Irena Lazic (5 months ago)
I tried this conversation thing like 3 months ago. My bf is just some different kind of satan I guess. He became super mad at me for coming up to him in a way he tought he could help, but when he heard what Its about he just attacked me with some harsh words saying he is not going to change in some way ,, just because it would make me feel better “ i pointed out that my feelings are important and he cant make it as important as the need to like every damn pic. He said I just need to deal with the fact hes not doing anything wrong...its been a constant fight eversince, oh and the liking never stopped. I watched a lot of these videos about relationships when I used to be single but now Im in a relationship again my thoughts and emotions are so out of control that I dont know how to deal with this shit. 😑
Emily Allison (5 months ago)
It is vital to be much more specific when addressing boundaries for social media. I like this video and its tips. I know a lot of my own insecurities are involved in my problems with a guy's likes; however, social media IS a portal to trouble. When I like a pic of another guy who I don't know, the next thing is a follow request, then a comment, then a DM, then an attempt to find out if I am available...then to find out if I am willing to cheat. Women are exactly the same with men on social media, brazen and full of alterior motives. So, with the men I date, I try to be VERY specific. Likes may be something I willing to tolerate within reason, but there MUST be a clear line that uber commenting, DMs, perpetual likes, super naked likes...it is all just unnecessary. Also, in attempting to grapple with the part that is my own insecurity, I have found it helpful to like a pic or two of hot guys myself, just to see how trivial it is and that I would NEVER leave my man or pursue something with some hot stranger just because I liked a pic on his Insta.
Makeup by Marie (5 months ago)
If it's some girl he knows and keeps liking her flirty pics but never really likes mine, what does that mean? I feel like that sucks.
Phoebe brawn-douglas (6 months ago)
Wow!! Love this video... I dont mind if my man looks at hot girls. But he works with girls online it can be hard... We working on it..
Beloved Royalty (6 months ago)
"RESPECT IS RESPECT..REST IN PARADISE MS.ARETHA FRANKLIN QUEEN OF SOUL"💯💯💯
Queenananasa (6 months ago)
I don´t like the fact that this is in some way telling women to just cope with the fact that some men are just douches….And I love to watch that actually he is the insecure one…..and you all know why I say this, just making an obvious point
Jordain Rose 23 (6 months ago)
My man has been liking girls pictures throughout our relationship from the beginning he’s been adding girls he doesn’t even know while he’s been with me , when I question him about it he then starts shouting and nit picks at my faults instead of giving me an explanation to why he’s sending friends requests to girls who are half naked and he’s never met . He’s deleting messages on Facebook and giving more attention to these girls than me when I make an effort to look appealing he doesn’t even notice but yet he’s constantly looking at other girls . I feel like he’s just with me because he can’t get anyone els
KlnSe1915 (5 months ago)
+Hailey I agree with you hazy. And Jordain, girl get yourself a guy who is going to treat you how you deserve. A fucking QUEEN
Hailey (6 months ago)
Girl you deserve so much more respect than that! How about you dump him because YOU can get someone else. Know you deserve better
K V (6 months ago)
This is such helpful advice! And she does an excellent job with this!
Mark Rosenfeld (6 months ago)
Arw thanks K V - really glad you liked the video and hope you got something out of it. x
Susan England Rinehart (6 months ago)
What a Great#DEMO ~ Well !! Done LADY !! :) <3 <3 :)
Mark Rosenfeld (6 months ago)
Glad you enjoyed it Susan Gracia Blauw - thanks for watching and commenting :)
Carolyn Reyes (6 months ago)
He always likes the photo of this model on ig because of ass mkes me feel insecure mkes me feel im not sexy enough
sepp reiB (6 months ago)
Hahhaha 😄😄😄 piz✌ When insecurity strike U! Can destroy ur relationships 🤣🤣🤣 Booommmmm.
U ritmu dobre muzike (6 months ago)
He liked her picture and then commented Inappropriate thing. What the girl should do?
Efriana Yulianti (7 months ago)
What if he gave comment a heart emo on the girl (maybe his ex) pic?
Cynthia Perez (7 months ago)
I tried the same but he took it inthe wrong way and said he'll delete everything...even tho I know he won't I do t want to restrain I just want it to be moderated. What can I do.?
|| Mica || (7 months ago)
What the fuck is the problem if a man likes another girls picture? grow the fuck up
ittybittyshoeshine (7 months ago)
Im beautiful and fun and I have never had a sense of insecurity in my life. I have very high standards and that in itself shows the opposite of insecurity. This man seems nice BUT he isnt someone who I agree with or would take advice from. Any man who likes to spend his free time liking other womens provocative photos is a tad too immature for my taste. Its just my personal standards. I wouldnt want to be in a relationship where a man feels the need to tell someone theyre attractive bu liking photos like a 13 year old boy. Looking is one thing...liking is running along the lines of creepy. I dumped a guy for this and dont regret it as turns out I was right decision for me. Follow your instincts. Dont put up with creepy men. If you want real advice go to Matthew Hussey as he did a video on this about he tweets other girls. He has much better advice. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kY7Rr_SgyuM
tasha h (7 months ago)
Should your partner and yourself be friends on facebook?
Charmed 6266 (8 months ago)
Not your best video, sorry 👎
Ian Kennedy (8 months ago)
My gf of 2 years left me because of this... love this video!
Sandy Demian (1 month ago)
And you expect her not to be pissed?
ivoryvignettes (2 months ago)
but honest question here: what do you get out of liking tons of other chicks pictures? why not look at them if you have to, why passively repost them and let people see you like their pics? (not asking to be rude, I genuinly don't get why guys do this?)
____ak711 Khampliw (8 months ago)
I told him what disturbs me but he kept liking other girls pictures. We‘re in a long distance so that makes it worse.
Linz 819 (2 months ago)
thats happening to meee
elena neens (8 months ago)
If he likes even ONE semi naked woman's picture - he is not for me. Why? Because - although there is natural attraction to other woman, a mature gentleman must learn to contain that and love his woman by principle. It's absolutely disrespectful. Whether it's the worst thing that happened or not--- I'd move on gracefully without kicking up a fuss.
Sue Worrall (8 months ago)
What about when he's liking your friends pictures?
Evel Grey Tarot (8 months ago)
Sure. I only Like pics on insta with guys that have 6 packs and HUGE front packages in their underwear and speedos. I'll go back again and again to the same guys and Like all of them, especially if I know them personally. Why would my bf be insecure about that 😒
Samsung samsung (11 days ago)
THANKYOU Holy fuck, guys don't at all get it on their side. This needs to be said more.
X. F. (9 months ago)
Great video, I have the same situation since 6 years and exactly the same conversation afterwards. Still did not find a better solution besides accepting it. It got better a bit but only because „bad me“ told him the issue with respect. :/
maria martinez (9 months ago)
my boyfriend always likes other woman's instagram pics, and talked to a few of them on instagram and facebook while he was talking to me. He was dirty talking to some girl for a long time like almost all the time he was talking to me. The worst of it was that this girl has been engaged to some guy for almost 7 years. He told me he was just trolling, but then again he never told me. He gets pissed off when I bring the fact that he did that so I try not to bring it up. He drags me down most of the time, and I try to change or him.. Eat less so he can like me better, so I can look closer to what he's into. I quit college and moved with him and in the pas months feel like I've adapted certain habits (drinking alcohol everyday) that he's had for years, but I would do anything just so that he can look at me like he looks and talks to those girls on instagram and facebook.
lagavulin cotton (9 months ago)
Respecting your partner, is NOT even needing to add sexy girls on Instagram. If you ask me. It's as disrespectful as having a girl come over to your house and pose in front of him while you are there. It takes away the lust & passion he has for you- his partner. He is focusing minutes to hrs. On other random girls when he could..j should be transferring that time into you. Quality time. Most girls would think a guy was only with them, because at the time it was easy to get you. And they couldn't find any better looking girls so they feel obligated to stay with you. No girl wants to feel like a guy is with her out of convenience. Would you like it if your dad was liking pics of bikini clad girls, would you feel that was respectful. Probably not at all.
Cindy Cin (9 months ago)
Hahaha great video not supposed to be funny but it made me laugh why does he say she is ugly but is still doing it does he think im stupid
Mark Rosenfeld (9 months ago)
Thanks for enjoying my work Cindy ;)
Jean Moore (9 months ago)
All he looks at pictures he collect pictures in his naked women pictures in his he likes big butts and big tits I mean I look good myself for my age really I get a lot of attention but I'm not looking for attention from other men I'm looking for my attention for my for my man I want attention from him but he don't look at pictures he's really talkin to somebody video calling they see each other's by video call
Jean Moore (9 months ago)
I tried to talk to him I said look babe I love you and I just want your attention you pay attention to that phone looking at naked women I tried to talk to him I said look babe I love you and I just want your attention you pay attention to that phone looking at naked women you got a beautiful woman right here he'll laugh and say you trip too much that's why I don't want to be in a relationship with a woman that's got insecure problems with herself but I don't have insecure problems with myself I'm just telling him he's disrespecting me twerking having sex phone s******** sex with other women
Jean Moore (9 months ago)
Last time he looking at Nikki woman's on this internet called Tango the woman was sexually feeling her body with no clothes on and I was in my bed and he was on the bed looking at naked women fondling with their self you can hear the woman moaning and calling his name and I'm laying right in the bed with him and I told him that's disrespect why would you do something like that and he said you're tripping he told me when he was younger he was used to having two women sleeping with him at the same time he said I used to be a player a pimp and I had two of my baby's mom beside me
Victoria Vzvodnaya (4 months ago)
Wow, please leave him baby girl. You deserve so much better. That is absolute disrespect, you are NOT crazy and please remember he is WRONG.
KlnSe1915 (5 months ago)
If you guys aren't in an open relationship, I would consider that DEFINITE cheating. Being on a video call with a completely naked girl playing with herself and calling his name is cheating in my book.
Jean Moore (9 months ago)
Over me and looks that mean he'll say only want to do is get in your pants you're too fat he don't want that
Jean Moore (9 months ago)
He got locksonline his phone he got locks on his phone so you can't get in it locks on his pictures locked all kinds of what he got like three four locks and he still takes his phone wherever he goes and goes to the bathroom he takes his phone he goes to the store he takes his phone and if I'm cleaning the house and walking around next to his phone which I'm not thinking about looking at he'll say what are you trying to look at my phone don't go over there or like when I'm going out when I come in the house he'll take his phone and throw it under the pillow and you can see that he's nervous all up in his face ain't got a camera on his phone he said I don't know if that's true I know you can download stuff like that but he says that it'll take a picture of me if I touch it and he'll know it's me but I don't understand if he got a camera on his phone and it'll take a picture of me if I touch it then why he takes his phone everywhere he goes and even sleeps with the phone next to him so I won't touch it
Just dump him. Honestly, the moment that my ex did that same thing to me, I suddenly lost interest and left him ASAP. Caught him cheating. After a few months, he keeps begging for us to go back. I’m like, “I cannot touch a liar and cheater. Get lost” boom. Girl, better to be single than dealing with that shit.
Mary Hunt (5 months ago)
He's definitely cheating. He's a scumbag and you need to dump his ass.
Jean Moore (9 months ago)
Oh he sticks to one certain I seen half of it the picture when he was looking at her and smiling at her picture he didn't notice I seen him he thought I was in the room and then Late Night Calls sitting up talking to a woman from 6 in the morning tell Evan in the morning almost in the evening he says it's one of his family he's talking to I say you should have a good conversation with your sister I never seen a sister and brother have so much laughter in conversation with each other the way he was laughing I wake up early in the morning 5 he's texting somebody he said it's his cousin texting him that late in the morning I know he's lying
Jean Moore (9 months ago)
My boyfriend spends always on Instagram I even caught him looking at a woman behind on a video chat dedicating songs to the woman sending pictures of his private and of his self fully dressed doing video singing song sending love songs to her he sits up all night long to the morning and talk to her he doesn't pay me any mind then when I ask him he gets mad cusses me out tells me stop being insecure stop being jealous I'm not jealous or insecure he doesn't pay me no mind one time I went out and I recorded him having sex video sex with another woman like you can hear her moaning and groaning and you can hear him talk into her telling her smack her behind then when I confront him he gets really mad and tell me I'm crazy I have to beg him to have sex with me I asked him I said why you don't have sex with me he says you know I'm in my sixties I can't really do that like I used to do when I was younger I'm 54 and I'm very sexually active fire is that I don't have no problem with having sex I'm sexually active with one partner which is him and when went in the bed and having sex he claimed mix really fast and I don't get to enjoy the sex I don't understand why he goes to other women on video and do sex with over the phone with them I try to talk to him I tried to laugh with him I try to be fun with him I even got sexy and put on some lace godderz let my let my hair hang down long red lipstick and put some heels on and started dancing the way them women dance he told me sit my old ass down and stop trying to act young I was only giving him what he's looking for
Romina Constenla (10 months ago)
I think the reason why people get hurt by their partner liking nude models in ig is that it's a way to take action towards attraction. It's disrespectful and shitty
Tyson Hudson (10 months ago)
Can I apply this to my girlfriend? She’s been liking another guys selfies constantly. I wouldn’t have a problem with this, but in the past this same problem occurred and it turned out that she was going behind my back with another man. We broke up after that, not now we’re back together. I brought this up to her about this “new guy” and she got very defensive about it. Even after I brought it up she’s still doing it. Should I be concerned? Or, should I bring it back up? Need help!!!!!
Gloria Chong Kar Xing (9 months ago)
Tyson Hudson Life is too short to tolerate things that don't make you happy. Good luck.
New Worldorder (11 months ago)
Dump him. They are messaging these women. I get them messaging all the time. They are usually in relationships looking for fun.
S Smith (11 months ago)
Freudian slip? My boyfriend of two years (living together) called me Sally one night. My name is Suzy, very similar. I ended up talking to Sally within in two weeks when she called his phone and I checked our phone bill! He is a pathological liar and cheater! We set him up on a three-way call and nailed him.
Mark Rosenfeld (11 months ago)
Euuuugh S Smith sorry to hear what has happened :( Glad you got to the bottom of it
indoraptor 5150 (1 year ago)
just get back at him.
Dish Laydie (1 year ago)
Much better/more accurate than the more recent video clip about managing jealousy. It addresses the problem with more precision. Thanks for posting it!
Mark Rosenfeld (1 year ago)
Thanks Dish :)
Rose K (1 year ago)
Social media ruined our relationships, I mean if I’m with a guy I don’t even respond to guys online or follow, like them unless they are my friend but he should do the same. Respect is so important!
Maureen Marie (24 days ago)
You said it girl💕
Jermia Turner (1 year ago)
You've both got to be on the same level with this, I agree. Communicating expectations is super important around this.
Jackey Alvarado (1 year ago)
Does she have a channel too ?💜
Jermia Turner (1 year ago)
Awwww Jackey! I would love to but I don’t have any quality content for you! Hahaha
Mark Rosenfeld (1 year ago)
Not yet Jackey - I'm sure in the future!
b11 5 (1 year ago)
hi mark I been seeing this guy for a tho month now were long distance he has been liking over girls photos who live in hes area I can not help the jealously I feel hahah we have been being exclusive to each over but we're hes liking these womens photos who live in hes area should i be concerned he is doing more then liking there pics
Meteor Madie (1 year ago)
Uggh! Remind me of my babys daddy, totally disrespectful to our relationship years ago. Yet still think he can try to get come in and out in his son's life, that's no respect for his own son! Which is why I've blocked him completely, I'd rather deal with him at the court. Regret that I even put his name on the cert.
TheMrsShephard (1 year ago)
I strongly disagree. Liking other girl's pictures (if she is not a family member or a close friend) is disrespectful to the woman the guy is with. Even more so, if these are bikini pictures. Guys, come on! It has nothing to do with my insecurities. I know that my man will be attracted to other women, but he doesn't need to let me know that. He can see a girl and think ''wow, she is beautiful'', but telling me that?? Hell no. It is the same with liking a pic, it is something I can see (and other people for that matter). And if these are explicit pictures, it is responding to someone's sexual energy. To all the girls that don't like when their guy likes other girls' pics: you are not crazy, it is not just ''your insecurities''. Demand respect, because if you don't, guys will think that they can do whatever they want, even disrecpecting you. Girls that pretend that they don't have a problem with their guy liking other girls' pics, are so called ''cool girls''. They pretend they are cool with whatever, bc they are afraid of being labeled as ''insecure'', ''clingy'' and stuff like that. These are the same girls that will be ''cool'' if the guy goes out with his mates on New Year's because she is sick in bed and cannot leave the house. Don't be that girl.
Samsung samsung (11 days ago)
Yes girl. It's nice we are finally saying it!! Men need to learn to respect women.
Brittany Lynn (1 month ago)
Agreed I had guys in relationships liking my photos but they will scroll right past their girls pics and not like them Also I had guys who had girlfriends like all my pics in end up in my inbox trying to talk to me so ladies you are not wrong for feeling this way
Brittany Lynn (1 month ago)
Agreed I had guys in relationships liking my photos but they will scroll right past their girls pics and not like them Also I had guys who had girlfriends like all my pics in end up in my inbox trying to talk to me so ladies you are not wrong for feeling this way
Brittany Lynn (1 month ago)
Agreed I had guys in relationships liking my photos but they will scroll right past their girls pics and not like them Also I had guys who had girlfriends like all my pics in end up in my inbox trying to talk to me so ladies you are not wrong for feeling this way
Brittany Lynn (1 month ago)
Agreed I had guys in relationships liking my photos but they will scroll right past their girls pics and not like them Also I had guys who had girlfriends like all my pics in end up in my inbox trying to talk to me so ladies you are not wrong for feeling this way
Ramatoulaye Diallo (1 year ago)
But I wasn’t comfortable at all
Mark Rosenfeld (1 year ago)
Glad to hear you brought it up then Rama
Ramatoulaye Diallo (1 year ago)
I was into a same issue with my boyfriend But he stopped for some reason
Mark Rosenfeld (1 year ago)
P.S. Don't forget the facebook group if you're not already there :) https://www.facebook.com/groups/766326563553359/
Mark Rosenfeld (1 year ago)
Glad to hear he stopped also Rama!
Lana Leon (1 year ago)
Mark you're the best <3 !!
Mark Rosenfeld (1 year ago)
Shankyou Lana. Are you in our Facebook group? If you're not already there it's https://www.facebook.com/groups/766326563553359/
Kitt Knight (1 year ago)
I like your first point
Kitt Knight (1 year ago)
Mark Rosenfeld it was every insta pic ...that wad untill i mentioned our six deg of seperation between myself and her....suddenly...it stopped🤔
Mark Rosenfeld (1 year ago)
Tricky spot Kitt Knight - similar advice though. Anything else happening with her or just that? Occasional or often?
Kitt Knight (1 year ago)
but what if it's an ex of his ...but non sexual pic🤔
S S (1 year ago)
Hi Mark i know my husband from last 10 years and we r married from last 6 years and now we have a 3 year old daughter, few months back he went out with his two female friends and he left house in the morning and came back late evening so i shouted at him or may be u can say i was insecure. After our argument he told me he doesn't want to talk to me and he don't love me anymore and their is no place for me in his heart and he is with me only because of our daughter so now i am very confused i really don't understand what to do i mean from last 10 years we never had a fight so it's really very painful as he's so rude with me, he doesn't talk nicely i am so stressed, he said he want to leave his own life but i love him very much and cannot think of loosing him pls tell me what i should do i am so confused and shocked to see him changed.....
Mary Hunt (5 months ago)
Hey Shana. I just saw your comment and wanted to know how things turned out with your (hopefully ex) husband. I hope you're doing well.
S S (1 year ago)
Mark Rosenfeld thanks for your reply Mark i will email you for sure. No problem about the fee.
Mark Rosenfeld (1 year ago)
Hey Shana so sorry to hear what has happened. There's so much going on here and it's important for you to know there's a bit too much going on here at this point for me to wrap my head around and give you decent advice over YouTube comments. If you would like to book in to chat about this more you can email [email protected] and organise a time for a skype (Just FYI there is a cost to doing this). Otherwise, we have the new facebook group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/766326563553359/ Mark
Lily (1 year ago)
I see how she was lovely, and didn't once accuse him or attack. Her whole tone was awesome. However, I also saw her doing all the work, most of the talking, and ultimately I didnt see them agree on or clarify what is acceptable. How was this a mutual vulnerable conversation? Not trying to be snarky, I really am asking sincerely.
Egle Valeikaite (3 months ago)
I know! He was just there meh
Lily (1 year ago)
Oh I see! Thanks for clarifying. You were indeed a most unhelpful character, well done haha
Mark Rosenfeld (1 year ago)
Thanks Lily, great questions. I was trying to play the most unhelpful character possible here just to show the audience how as the woman (if the guy is uncooperative) you can still make it work. Hopefully the guy is a lot more help than this. And obviously, the conversation about respect follows. That's another topic for another video, but it's basically about making sure you're on the same side together and then agreeing to define 'respect' as a couple so you can both reign the other in if there is problems, but also speaking realistically about not holding in the reigns too tightly and getting past your own insecurities.
C (1 year ago)
Hi Mark I am ok with him liking other girls' photos, but while he's doing that he's ignoring my messages. How should I act to this? :)
Mark Rosenfeld (1 year ago)
That's just rude Christine. Have a watch of this video: https://youtu.be/mQHgO6u0sDw
Barbara Saxby (1 year ago)
I love when you bring up some of these less talked about topics. Always insightful! Its all about knowing your boundaries and good communication . Thanks Mark.
Mark Rosenfeld (1 year ago)
Yeh I find this a fascinating one because it's so new to modern day relationships and SUCH a grey topic depending on the couple and their attachment styles. Very interesting!
Belle Rb (1 year ago)
"Check in with yourself" - and makesure you not doing the same thing as well. Hehe.. absolutely love that Mark! :)
Belle Rb (1 year ago)
Agreed! 👌💯
Mark Rosenfeld (1 year ago)
Thanks Belle! Always good to look internally first.
Eugenia Buitron (1 year ago)
Hi Mark, I have a question...There is this man I know from an organization I belong to who every time he sees me, he stops everything he's doing or talking to and stares at me with this look of frozen fear on his face? I try to smile at him but he doesn't acknowledge, what's up?? It's freaking me out. Thank you
Mark Rosenfeld (1 year ago)
LOL. I have absolutely no idea. He sounds like he's terrified of you! Did you kick him many years ago??
Jena 79 (1 year ago)
Lets say you did do these things especially being vulnerable and all you got is silence and got ghosted???... Guess that pretty much answers my own question lol!
Mark Rosenfeld (1 year ago)
Yep.
Laura Montesinos (1 year ago)
What to do when your bf likes his ex pictures and keep their relationship and trip photos on his social media? It's a total no for me, not allowed. What do you girls think? I personally had to break up with him. I don't trust him.
Timothy King (1 month ago)
Why
خديجة غريب (7 months ago)
Laura Montesinos it's show that he miss her
Mark (1 year ago)
Jermia's acting was really great in this one, especially the second scene!
Jermia Turner (1 year ago)
Love you!! x
Jay Kate (1 year ago)
Mark what should I do when my love told me that we r going to date but after that she started dating someone pls answer me
Sherrie Beazley (1 year ago)
No matter the fact is that's disrespectful and if its done by him best thing to do is kick his ass to the curb with all his stuff behind him. This happened 6 months ago to me by someone who I just started dating when I saw that I told him he could do want he wanted but I was not willing to invest in a player and I would be on my way. He told me he loves me and they were just their friends he had for many years and since it bothered me he wouldn't do it again and he hasn't. Still together but wished he would drop people that been his ex's and girls he thought we hot on his social sites that message him . Been seriously considering to call it quits and just live as a hermit and close the world out then don't have to worry about other people hurting you .
Lizzy M (1 year ago)
What do you do when you and your boyfriend have agreed to have a threesome and suddenly since you agreed to it he is obsessed about it always bring it up or talking about it...? How do you deal with that? I’m worried the threesome is going to change our relationship...
Emily Allison (5 months ago)
You pick the girl. Don't make it a friend. Make clear boundaries. Do it sooner than later. Then tell him to shut the hell up about it...furthermore, if he gets a girl, you should get a guy. That is my rule and boy does it make them think harder about pushing for it! LOL!
Mary Hunt (5 months ago)
I know I'm late to the game, but just know that you have the right to withdraw consent from any sexual activity at an time. Just because you agree to do something now, doesn't mean you have to do it in the future. If this situation feels off (maybe you're having second thoughts about the additional person) or you're not comfortable with having a threesome at all, that is totally valid. If you're boyfriend really values you, he will understand and press no further. If he becomes angry or tries to guilt you into something you don't want to do, it's best to move on and find someone who will respect you and your wishes.
Barbara Saxby (1 year ago)
Fantasies are fantasies for a reason - when emotions get involved, or you watch him pay more attention or be more attracted to her - or he wants this all of the time now, I am afraid the relationship may suffer...
Sarah Nguyen (1 year ago)
Hey Mark. I just need some advice. We have been dating for quite a long time now but sometimes, he acts kinda weird. He goes out with his friends (which is also my friends) but he just hiding it away from me. I am okay with him going out with friends but why is he hiding from me? Also sometimes he forgets about me. He went home without me and when I ask where is he, he said he forgot. It makes me really sad, like I don't really means anything important to him. What should I do
nagham lvly (1 year ago)
Wow, amazing, well-done guys, really jermia acted as real👍👍👍👍👍👍👍, when the guy likes or seeing another girls photo whether it is normal or not you can understand his behavior if he looking only one photo every day or different if he keeping that photo on his phone or somewhere changing his behavior and so on when you suspect that there is something wrong, you can ask like jermia did yet, but just looking girls photos is normal when the guy is handsome like mark every girl likes to see not you don't love your boyfriend or husband ahahahahah that is normal.
cold; she (1 year ago)
Omg Thankyou for doing this topic! Such a needed topic
Habooba Abdulaziz (1 year ago)
This is so realistic
Mariposa axy (1 year ago)
Aww i wish i saw this about 6 months ago i was that girl :(
Marsha Hampel (1 year ago)
Hmmm...normally love the advice, content and acting...but not with this one. She acted like an unsure, scared, beaten down women...so many pauses...like she was walking on eggshells...Too much work! Too much like a game...kiss him to "reward" him sharing a simple feeling? Nah, not your Mom...or raising a puppy
Jermia Turner (1 year ago)
Yeah she sucks.
luulips (1 year ago)
Bwahahahaha Jermia has me laughing till I cry every time I see her over the top with the negative performance!!! 😂😂😂😂😂 She does great with the serious ones too. Great video Mark!!!
luulips (1 year ago)
LOLOL!!!
Jermia Turner (1 year ago)
I will never stop doing the over the top performances! hahahah xx

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