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What To Do When He Likes Another Girls Insta Pics | Boyfriend Is Liking Other Girls Photos Join me LIVE! www.makehimyours.com.au/secrets-of-men-2018/ Do you ever think to yourself, "What To Do When He Likes Another Girls Insta Pics?” “when bae likes another girl's pic?” or “What to do if boyfriend is liking another girls photos?” These 12 Texts will Make Him Yours: www.bit.ly/MHYText A dating advice question I get asked a lot by women is "Mark, my boyfriend is liking other girls photos, what to do?” and “my boyfriend is liking other girls on instagram?” and “what to do when he likes another girls pics?”. Join the Facebook group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/766326563553359/ There’s a question I get ask a lot that I haven’t yet addressed on this channel – it’s what to do when your partner likes another girls Instagram or Facebook photos. It can be an incredibly dicey and difficult question to deal with and it’s a brand-new relationship problem that has never previously existed before this generation… So how to handle it when your boyfriend is liking other girls on Instagram and what to do when he likes another girls Instagram photos? I’ve got Jermia Turner in with me to show you exactly how. Where is the line? How do you know when your boyfriend crosses the line between normal Instagram scrolling (which would be ridiculous to ask him to stop) to disrespectfully ‘liking’ other girl’s photos (which is perfectly reasonable to ask him to stop). Can he like another girl’s photos and what do you do when he likes another girls photos on Facebook? I’ve got Jermia Turner back acting with me to show you what can be done! When a woman comes to me saying "Mark, what to do if he likes another girls instagram pics?” or “Mark, what to do when bae likes another girl's pics?” and “How to handle it when he likes another girls photo?” my first thought is "Great question. This woman wants to deal with the problems in her relationship, rather than pushing them under the rug. It’s important in these situations to be able to identify what her standards are, what defines respect and what constitutes her own insecurities that are taking things too far”. In this dating advice video from Make Him Yours, I (Mark Rosenfeld, dating and relationships coach with Jermia Turner, make him yours mastercoach) am describing what to do when he likes another girls instagram pics and how to handle it when your partner likes another girls Facebook pics. It’s not easy when your boyfriend is liking other girls pics on Instagram, but how to know if it is disrespecting your relationship? To complicate things further, this is going to be different in every relationship with different things working for different couples. Thus, what I present in this video is a way that can work for all couples to communicate over this tricky situation. This is an important video on relationships and the difficult conversations you have to have in them. Because these problems didn’t exist even 15 years ago, these are challenges couples are going through that have never existed before. The question is, how to handle it? When bae likes another girls photo, what do you do? What to do when he likes another girls pics? Liking another girls picture – what do you say? This dating and relationships dating advice video with mark Rosenfield and Jermia Turner is my comprehensive guide to what to do when he likes another girls insta pics. How to know the difference between respect in your own relationship and your own insecurities and can he likes another girls photo without it being demeaning to you? If your boyfriend is liking other girls photos and liking another girls picture on Instagram, I’ve got this video with Jermia Turner happening to show you what you need to do. I hope you like the video on What To Do When He Likes Another Girls Insta Pics and what to do when your Boyfriend Is Liking Other Girls Photos. Enjoy the video guys! This is Mark Rosenfeld, dating and relationships coach from Make Him Yours **Click below to SUBSCRIBE to my channel for more videos: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCj43... Join the conversation on Facebook: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/howtomakehim... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/makehimyours/ Snapchat: MarkRosenfeld Mark Rosenfeld is the Australian dating and relationship coach for women and the founder of Make Him Yours, a dating advice and relationship advice service empowering women to find the love they desire. Want to watch more? Here’s The Top 7 Ways To Turn Him On - https://youtu.be/_hHj3J2JRPM -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "How To Have WAY More Fun On Dates & Stop Wasting Time On Dating" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAQNK7oMz0k -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
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Egle Valeikaite (2 days ago)
well if you are attracted to others why not go and have an open relationship then
Austin Carter (3 days ago)
Girlfriends need to seriously chill out over booty pics period I’m not watching her activity but I’m babysat it’s annoying I watch porn and that’s okay but liking a damn booty pic is not it’s the same thing
Seqouyah Hill (5 days ago)
This teaching woman to agree to being disrespected
Mark Rosenfeld (5 days ago)
Sorry if you feel that way. Thanks though for watching xx
Supersoacker (12 days ago)
I don’t understand how this guy gives advice without being competent. Like he is not a psychologist so he shouldn’t cross the line of the dating advice
Mark Rosenfeld (11 days ago)
Supersoaker I look at it this way - what gets people results? In the end, all I'm interested in is helping people find Love. If I can prove i can do that, why should I need a piece of paper to share that gift with the world? x
Mwadjuma Mukamfizi (14 days ago)
I had like men pictures but I never even think it’s bad because I don’t care about the other guys who I am not dating !!!i would feel bad if he lik a girl picture if he doesn’t contact them
Maiko (15 days ago)
Same my bf constantly like other girls pics but never liked mine.. dang..the nigga needs to chill.
peaceelias709 (26 days ago)
Hi guys so I’ve been feeling so uncomfortable about my bf liking girls pics on Instagram. I don’t care about the models and celebrities but he likes sexy pics of his friends. One time I asked him if he liked girls pics and he said he never. I don’t have social media so I believed him but I checked him out one time using my friends Instagram and he was in fact doing that. Then another time there was a girl who asked for his number at a party and he said no because he had a girlfriend. A couple days later he told me that she had followed him on Instagram because they new each other’s families. However he never told me that he was liking all of her pics. He never told me that he followed her back and took the time to look through all of her pics and like them. She did the same thing. I feel like that is sketchy but maybe I’m crazy?
Kiah Yoo (1 month ago)
It sucks because it’s not part of my brain chemistry. I legit only think about him. So it sucks to think that he doesn’t equally feel the same way for me. Yah know ?
Mrs.JK (1 month ago)
8:12 - 10:46 is laughable! No guy will just agree to what she said with no further discussion. In reality they will get defensive and turn it all around on their girlfriend/wife and call us insecure and get over it, I'm not going to stop liking their photos and or communicating with these females. Especially when the girl hes liking and chatting with is an ex. Its the worst feeling in the world knowing tha you arent important enough to let all these past girlfriends go. If I had done the exact same thing, he would have kicked me to the curb right away....:'(
Mina Arroyo (1 month ago)
I strongly disagree on a lot of this. I think the intention behind him liking or following other women is the awful part. So we have to be the one to reward them for communicating? How about him apologizing for his bad behavior. The problem here is the women tolerate this shit way too much. And men brush it off like it’s not a big deal.
Hailey Earls (1 month ago)
Obviously he will be attracted to other women, and that is okay. However, walking down the sidewalk and seeing an attractive person and going on with your day is a lot different than making it publicly transparent of that attraction by taking the time out of your day to double tap someone’s photo. I don’t want to know who else he finds attractive, especially if they’re friends. It DOES cause problems in relationships even when the relationship is in good standing.
Sandra Maaiez (1 month ago)
Ma che cazzo dici 😒😒
Sandra Maaiez (1 month ago)
+Mark Rosenfeld seriamente quello che dici no sens proprio ....
Mark Rosenfeld (1 month ago)
Sorry you didn't like the content Sandra. Appreciate you taking the time to watch regardless.
Chane B (1 month ago)
what about if your guy is adding girls only girl he knows and lives in his area, got their numbers and keep following them on social media? its another story when the guy like people picture he doesnt know but girls that he is in contact with is different right? what is behind this behaviour?
Irena Lazic (1 month ago)
I tried this conversation thing like 3 months ago. My bf is just some different kind of satan I guess. He became super mad at me for coming up to him in a way he tought he could help, but when he heard what Its about he just attacked me with some harsh words saying he is not going to change in some way ,, just because it would make me feel better “ i pointed out that my feelings are important and he cant make it as important as the need to like every damn pic. He said I just need to deal with the fact hes not doing anything wrong...its been a constant fight eversince, oh and the liking never stopped. I watched a lot of these videos about relationships when I used to be single but now Im in a relationship again my thoughts and emotions are so out of control that I dont know how to deal with this shit. 😑
Emily Allison (2 months ago)
It is vital to be much more specific when addressing boundaries for social media. I like this video and its tips. I know a lot of my own insecurities are involved in my problems with a guy's likes; however, social media IS a portal to trouble. When I like a pic of another guy who I don't know, the next thing is a follow request, then a comment, then a DM, then an attempt to find out if I am available...then to find out if I am willing to cheat. Women are exactly the same with men on social media, brazen and full of alterior motives. So, with the men I date, I try to be VERY specific. Likes may be something I willing to tolerate within reason, but there MUST be a clear line that uber commenting, DMs, perpetual likes, super naked likes...it is all just unnecessary. Also, in attempting to grapple with the part that is my own insecurity, I have found it helpful to like a pic or two of hot guys myself, just to see how trivial it is and that I would NEVER leave my man or pursue something with some hot stranger just because I liked a pic on his Insta.
Makeup by Marie (2 months ago)
If it's some girl he knows and keeps liking her flirty pics but never really likes mine, what does that mean? I feel like that sucks.
Phoebe brawn-douglas (2 months ago)
Wow!! Love this video... I dont mind if my man looks at hot girls. But he works with girls online it can be hard... We working on it..
Beloved Royalty (2 months ago)
Queenananasa (3 months ago)
I don´t like the fact that this is in some way telling women to just cope with the fact that some men are just douches….And I love to watch that actually he is the insecure one…..and you all know why I say this, just making an obvious point
Jordain Rose 23 (3 months ago)
My man has been liking girls pictures throughout our relationship from the beginning he’s been adding girls he doesn’t even know while he’s been with me , when I question him about it he then starts shouting and nit picks at my faults instead of giving me an explanation to why he’s sending friends requests to girls who are half naked and he’s never met . He’s deleting messages on Facebook and giving more attention to these girls than me when I make an effort to look appealing he doesn’t even notice but yet he’s constantly looking at other girls . I feel like he’s just with me because he can’t get anyone els
KlnSe1915 (2 months ago)
+Hailey I agree with you hazy. And Jordain, girl get yourself a guy who is going to treat you how you deserve. A fucking QUEEN
Hailey (2 months ago)
Girl you deserve so much more respect than that! How about you dump him because YOU can get someone else. Know you deserve better
K V (3 months ago)
This is such helpful advice! And she does an excellent job with this!
Mark Rosenfeld (3 months ago)
Arw thanks K V - really glad you liked the video and hope you got something out of it. x
What a Great#DEMO ~ Well !! Done LADY !! :) <3 <3 :)
Mark Rosenfeld (3 months ago)
Glad you enjoyed it Susan Gracia Blauw - thanks for watching and commenting :)
Carolyn Reyes (3 months ago)
He always likes the photo of this model on ig because of ass mkes me feel insecure mkes me feel im not sexy enough
sef IB (3 months ago)
Hahhaha 😄😄😄 piz✌ When insecurity strike U! Can destroy ur relationships 🤣🤣🤣 Booommmmm.
U ritmu dobre muzike (3 months ago)
He liked her picture and then commented Inappropriate thing. What the girl should do?
Efriana Yulianti (3 months ago)
What if he gave comment a heart emo on the girl (maybe his ex) pic?
Cynthia Perez (4 months ago)
I tried the same but he took it inthe wrong way and said he'll delete everything...even tho I know he won't I do t want to restrain I just want it to be moderated. What can I do.?
perkeleen nyypät (4 months ago)
What the fuck is the problem if a man likes another girls picture? grow the fuck up
ittybittyshoeshine (4 months ago)
Im beautiful and fun and I have never had a sense of insecurity in my life. I have very high standards and that in itself shows the opposite of insecurity. This man seems nice BUT he isnt someone who I agree with or would take advice from. Any man who likes to spend his free time liking other womens provocative photos is a tad too immature for my taste. Its just my personal standards. I wouldnt want to be in a relationship where a man feels the need to tell someone theyre attractive bu liking photos like a 13 year old boy. Looking is one thing...liking is running along the lines of creepy. I dumped a guy for this and dont regret it as turns out I was right decision for me. Follow your instincts. Dont put up with creepy men. If you want real advice go to Matthew Hussey as he did a video on this about he tweets other girls. He has much better advice. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kY7Rr_SgyuM
tasha h (4 months ago)
Should your partner and yourself be friends on facebook?
Charmed 6266 (4 months ago)
Not your best video, sorry 👎
Ian Kennedy (4 months ago)
My gf of 2 years left me because of this... love this video!
____ak711 Khampliw (4 months ago)
I told him what disturbs me but he kept liking other girls pictures. We‘re in a long distance so that makes it worse.
elena neens (4 months ago)
If he likes even ONE semi naked woman's picture - he is not for me. Why? Because - although there is natural attraction to other woman, a mature gentleman must learn to contain that and love his woman by principle. It's absolutely disrespectful. Whether it's the worst thing that happened or not--- I'd move on gracefully without kicking up a fuss.
Susan Worrall (5 months ago)
What about when he's liking your friends pictures?
Evel Grey Tarot (5 months ago)
Sure. I only Like pics on insta with guys that have 6 packs and HUGE front packages in their underwear and speedos. I'll go back again and again to the same guys and Like all of them, especially if I know them personally. Why would my bf be insecure about that 😒
X. F. (5 months ago)
Great video, I have the same situation since 6 years and exactly the same conversation afterwards. Still did not find a better solution besides accepting it. It got better a bit but only because „bad me“ told him the issue with respect. :/
maria martinez (5 months ago)
my boyfriend always likes other woman's instagram pics, and talked to a few of them on instagram and facebook while he was talking to me. He was dirty talking to some girl for a long time like almost all the time he was talking to me. The worst of it was that this girl has been engaged to some guy for almost 7 years. He told me he was just trolling, but then again he never told me. He gets pissed off when I bring the fact that he did that so I try not to bring it up. He drags me down most of the time, and I try to change or him.. Eat less so he can like me better, so I can look closer to what he's into. I quit college and moved with him and in the pas months feel like I've adapted certain habits (drinking alcohol everyday) that he's had for years, but I would do anything just so that he can look at me like he looks and talks to those girls on instagram and facebook.
lagavulin cotton (5 months ago)
Respecting your partner, is NOT even needing to add sexy girls on Instagram. If you ask me. It's as disrespectful as having a girl come over to your house and pose in front of him while you are there. It takes away the lust & passion he has for you- his partner. He is focusing minutes to hrs. On other random girls when he could..j should be transferring that time into you. Quality time. Most girls would think a guy was only with them, because at the time it was easy to get you. And they couldn't find any better looking girls so they feel obligated to stay with you. No girl wants to feel like a guy is with her out of convenience. Would you like it if your dad was liking pics of bikini clad girls, would you feel that was respectful. Probably not at all.
Cindy C (5 months ago)
Hahaha great video not supposed to be funny but it made me laugh why does he say she is ugly but is still doing it does he think im stupid
Mark Rosenfeld (5 months ago)
Thanks for enjoying my work Cindy ;)
Jean Moore (6 months ago)
All he looks at pictures he collect pictures in his naked women pictures in his he likes big butts and big tits I mean I look good myself for my age really I get a lot of attention but I'm not looking for attention from other men I'm looking for my attention for my for my man I want attention from him but he don't look at pictures he's really talkin to somebody video calling they see each other's by video call
Jean Moore (6 months ago)
I tried to talk to him I said look babe I love you and I just want your attention you pay attention to that phone looking at naked women I tried to talk to him I said look babe I love you and I just want your attention you pay attention to that phone looking at naked women you got a beautiful woman right here he'll laugh and say you trip too much that's why I don't want to be in a relationship with a woman that's got insecure problems with herself but I don't have insecure problems with myself I'm just telling him he's disrespecting me twerking having sex phone s******** sex with other women
Jean Moore (6 months ago)
Last time he looking at Nikki woman's on this internet called Tango the woman was sexually feeling her body with no clothes on and I was in my bed and he was on the bed looking at naked women fondling with their self you can hear the woman moaning and calling his name and I'm laying right in the bed with him and I told him that's disrespect why would you do something like that and he said you're tripping he told me when he was younger he was used to having two women sleeping with him at the same time he said I used to be a player a pimp and I had two of my baby's mom beside me
Victoria Vzvodnaya (1 month ago)
Wow, please leave him baby girl. You deserve so much better. That is absolute disrespect, you are NOT crazy and please remember he is WRONG.
KlnSe1915 (2 months ago)
If you guys aren't in an open relationship, I would consider that DEFINITE cheating. Being on a video call with a completely naked girl playing with herself and calling his name is cheating in my book.
Jean Moore (6 months ago)
Over me and looks that mean he'll say only want to do is get in your pants you're too fat he don't want that
Jean Moore (6 months ago)
He got locksonline his phone he got locks on his phone so you can't get in it locks on his pictures locked all kinds of what he got like three four locks and he still takes his phone wherever he goes and goes to the bathroom he takes his phone he goes to the store he takes his phone and if I'm cleaning the house and walking around next to his phone which I'm not thinking about looking at he'll say what are you trying to look at my phone don't go over there or like when I'm going out when I come in the house he'll take his phone and throw it under the pillow and you can see that he's nervous all up in his face ain't got a camera on his phone he said I don't know if that's true I know you can download stuff like that but he says that it'll take a picture of me if I touch it and he'll know it's me but I don't understand if he got a camera on his phone and it'll take a picture of me if I touch it then why he takes his phone everywhere he goes and even sleeps with the phone next to him so I won't touch it
Mary Hunt (2 months ago)
He's definitely cheating. He's a scumbag and you need to dump his ass.
Jean Moore (6 months ago)
Oh he sticks to one certain I seen half of it the picture when he was looking at her and smiling at her picture he didn't notice I seen him he thought I was in the room and then Late Night Calls sitting up talking to a woman from 6 in the morning tell Evan in the morning almost in the evening he says it's one of his family he's talking to I say you should have a good conversation with your sister I never seen a sister and brother have so much laughter in conversation with each other the way he was laughing I wake up early in the morning 5 he's texting somebody he said it's his cousin texting him that late in the morning I know he's lying
Jean Moore (6 months ago)
My boyfriend spends always on Instagram I even caught him looking at a woman behind on a video chat dedicating songs to the woman sending pictures of his private and of his self fully dressed doing video singing song sending love songs to her he sits up all night long to the morning and talk to her he doesn't pay me any mind then when I ask him he gets mad cusses me out tells me stop being insecure stop being jealous I'm not jealous or insecure he doesn't pay me no mind one time I went out and I recorded him having sex video sex with another woman like you can hear her moaning and groaning and you can hear him talk into her telling her smack her behind then when I confront him he gets really mad and tell me I'm crazy I have to beg him to have sex with me I asked him I said why you don't have sex with me he says you know I'm in my sixties I can't really do that like I used to do when I was younger I'm 54 and I'm very sexually active fire is that I don't have no problem with having sex I'm sexually active with one partner which is him and when went in the bed and having sex he claimed mix really fast and I don't get to enjoy the sex I don't understand why he goes to other women on video and do sex with over the phone with them I try to talk to him I tried to laugh with him I try to be fun with him I even got sexy and put on some lace godderz let my let my hair hang down long red lipstick and put some heels on and started dancing the way them women dance he told me sit my old ass down and stop trying to act young I was only giving him what he's looking for
Romina Constenla (6 months ago)
I think the reason why people get hurt by their partner liking nude models in ig is that it's a way to take action towards attraction. It's disrespectful and shitty
Tyson Hudson (7 months ago)
Can I apply this to my girlfriend? She’s been liking another guys selfies constantly. I wouldn’t have a problem with this, but in the past this same problem occurred and it turned out that she was going behind my back with another man. We broke up after that, not now we’re back together. I brought this up to her about this “new guy” and she got very defensive about it. Even after I brought it up she’s still doing it. Should I be concerned? Or, should I bring it back up? Need help!!!!!
Gloria Chong Kar Xing (5 months ago)
Tyson Hudson Life is too short to tolerate things that don't make you happy. Good luck.
New Worldorder (7 months ago)
Dump him. They are messaging these women. I get them messaging all the time. They are usually in relationships looking for fun.
S Smith (8 months ago)
Freudian slip? My boyfriend of two years (living together) called me Sally one night. My name is Suzy, very similar. I ended up talking to Sally within in two weeks when she called his phone and I checked our phone bill! He is a pathological liar and cheater! We set him up on a three-way call and nailed him.
Mark Rosenfeld (8 months ago)
Euuuugh S Smith sorry to hear what has happened :( Glad you got to the bottom of it
indoraptor 5150 (9 months ago)
just get back at him.
Dish Laydie (10 months ago)
Much better/more accurate than the more recent video clip about managing jealousy. It addresses the problem with more precision. Thanks for posting it!
Mark Rosenfeld (10 months ago)
Thanks Dish :)
Rose K (10 months ago)
Social media ruined our relationships, I mean if I’m with a guy I don’t even respond to guys online or follow, like them unless they are my friend but he should do the same. Respect is so important!
Jermia Turner (9 months ago)
You've both got to be on the same level with this, I agree. Communicating expectations is super important around this.
Jackey Alvarado (10 months ago)
Does she have a channel too ?💜
Jermia Turner (10 months ago)
Awwww Jackey! I would love to but I don’t have any quality content for you! Hahaha
Mark Rosenfeld (10 months ago)
Not yet Jackey - I'm sure in the future!
b11 5 (11 months ago)
hi mark I been seeing this guy for a tho month now were long distance he has been liking over girls photos who live in hes area I can not help the jealously I feel hahah we have been being exclusive to each over but we're hes liking these womens photos who live in hes area should i be concerned he is doing more then liking there pics
Meteor Madie (11 months ago)
Uggh! Remind me of my babys daddy, totally disrespectful to our relationship years ago. Yet still think he can try to get come in and out in his son's life, that's no respect for his own son! Which is why I've blocked him completely, I'd rather deal with him at the court. Regret that I even put his name on the cert.
TheMrsShephard (11 months ago)
I strongly disagree. Liking other girl's pictures (if she is not a family member or a close friend) is disrespectful to the woman the guy is with. Even more so, if these are bikini pictures. Guys, come on! It has nothing to do with my insecurities. I know that my man will be attracted to other women, but he doesn't need to let me know that. He can see a girl and think ''wow, she is beautiful'', but telling me that?? Hell no. It is the same with liking a pic, it is something I can see (and other people for that matter). And if these are explicit pictures, it is responding to someone's sexual energy. To all the girls that don't like when their guy likes other girls' pics: you are not crazy, it is not just ''your insecurities''. Demand respect, because if you don't, guys will think that they can do whatever they want, even disrecpecting you. Girls that pretend that they don't have a problem with their guy liking other girls' pics, are so called ''cool girls''. They pretend they are cool with whatever, bc they are afraid of being labeled as ''insecure'', ''clingy'' and stuff like that. These are the same girls that will be ''cool'' if the guy goes out with his mates on New Year's because she is sick in bed and cannot leave the house. Don't be that girl.
Cryztal angel (25 days ago)
TheMrsShephard i feel like I’m going crazy, my bf likes this girls bikini pics all the time
Sandra Maaiez (1 month ago)
My respect
gitana1384 (5 months ago)
TheMrsShephard Thank you! I hate how this guy basically tells you, oh it's just you being insecure and that you should basically beg your man to not publicly disrespect you. I'm not a prude, I have no problem with my man watching porn or being attracted to celebrities/ models etc (as long as it's within reason and also not tacky Insta "models") however if he is constantly liking the pics of other girls, who he knows personally & are not family or close friends then that is unacceptable. The bar is so low for men nowadays because they are allowed to get away with these kinds of things. Also because unfortunately, they are spoiled for choice. Too many thirsty women & less & less straight men.
TheMrsShephard (11 months ago)
You wouldn't care if your man went out with his mates on new years's while you are sick in bed with nobody to take care of you? Really? I think you are also a victim of a ''cool girl'' concept. Yes, we are all different. But some ways of living life ARE wrong. I'm sorry... but I am sick of political correctness and the fact we are not able to tell someone that what they do is not right. I loooove men, but I am all for women empowerment and I hate when women are underestimated and treated without respect. When my girlfriends tell me about their relationship problems, I stright up tell them sometimes ''Leave him... what he did was awful. He doesn't deserve you. You can do so much better than that''(if the situation calls for that obvs). And I expect them to do the same for me. If I was like ''oh girl, just be you, everybody's different'' her situation wouldn't improve. We still live in a man's world, and if we don't stand up for ourselves, this will not change. I just find that women sometimes dig their own grave. And if that affected only them, cool. But that's rarely the case. Because what a guy learns in one relationship and thinks is right, he carries on to the next one. It is like faking an orgasm. The man is bad in bed, but was rewarded for it, he thinks his way of doing things work, so he doesn't change it. And the cycle continues. Until one woman finally tells him to do things differently. And I think we, women, owe each other to be that woman that calls him out on it.
Jermia Turner (11 months ago)
Everyone lives their life differently. Everyone has completely different boundaries of what they deem acceptable. This is your truth and I respect that, in the same way that frankly, not only would I not mind if my boyfriend liked another girls pictures (within reason) I also wouldn't care if my boyfriend went out with the boys on new years eve while I was sick... and that's okay. That doesn't make either one of us better or worse than the other, only different - the world is made up of polar opposites, it's what makes things interesting. Let's just appreciate that not everyone is the same and that we need to build each other up and not force our individual standards upon anyone :)
Ramatoulaye Diallo (11 months ago)
But I wasn’t comfortable at all
Mark Rosenfeld (11 months ago)
Glad to hear you brought it up then Rama
Ramatoulaye Diallo (11 months ago)
I was into a same issue with my boyfriend But he stopped for some reason
Mark Rosenfeld (11 months ago)
P.S. Don't forget the facebook group if you're not already there :) https://www.facebook.com/groups/766326563553359/
Mark Rosenfeld (11 months ago)
Glad to hear he stopped also Rama!
Lana Leon (11 months ago)
Mark you're the best <3 !!
Mark Rosenfeld (11 months ago)
Shankyou Lana. Are you in our Facebook group? If you're not already there it's https://www.facebook.com/groups/766326563553359/
Kitt Knight (11 months ago)
I like your first point
Kitt Knight (11 months ago)
Mark Rosenfeld it was every insta pic ...that wad untill i mentioned our six deg of seperation between myself and her....suddenly...it stopped🤔
Mark Rosenfeld (11 months ago)
Tricky spot Kitt Knight - similar advice though. Anything else happening with her or just that? Occasional or often?
Kitt Knight (11 months ago)
but what if it's an ex of his ...but non sexual pic🤔
S S (11 months ago)
Hi Mark i know my husband from last 10 years and we r married from last 6 years and now we have a 3 year old daughter, few months back he went out with his two female friends and he left house in the morning and came back late evening so i shouted at him or may be u can say i was insecure. After our argument he told me he doesn't want to talk to me and he don't love me anymore and their is no place for me in his heart and he is with me only because of our daughter so now i am very confused i really don't understand what to do i mean from last 10 years we never had a fight so it's really very painful as he's so rude with me, he doesn't talk nicely i am so stressed, he said he want to leave his own life but i love him very much and cannot think of loosing him pls tell me what i should do i am so confused and shocked to see him changed.....
Mary Hunt (2 months ago)
Hey Shana. I just saw your comment and wanted to know how things turned out with your (hopefully ex) husband. I hope you're doing well.
S S (11 months ago)
Mark Rosenfeld thanks for your reply Mark i will email you for sure. No problem about the fee.
Mark Rosenfeld (11 months ago)
Hey Shana so sorry to hear what has happened. There's so much going on here and it's important for you to know there's a bit too much going on here at this point for me to wrap my head around and give you decent advice over YouTube comments. If you would like to book in to chat about this more you can email [email protected] and organise a time for a skype (Just FYI there is a cost to doing this). Otherwise, we have the new facebook group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/766326563553359/ Mark
Lily (11 months ago)
I see how she was lovely, and didn't once accuse him or attack. Her whole tone was awesome. However, I also saw her doing all the work, most of the talking, and ultimately I didnt see them agree on or clarify what is acceptable. How was this a mutual vulnerable conversation? Not trying to be snarky, I really am asking sincerely.
Egle Valeikaite (2 days ago)
I know! He was just there meh
Lily (11 months ago)
Oh I see! Thanks for clarifying. You were indeed a most unhelpful character, well done haha
Mark Rosenfeld (11 months ago)
Thanks Lily, great questions. I was trying to play the most unhelpful character possible here just to show the audience how as the woman (if the guy is uncooperative) you can still make it work. Hopefully the guy is a lot more help than this. And obviously, the conversation about respect follows. That's another topic for another video, but it's basically about making sure you're on the same side together and then agreeing to define 'respect' as a couple so you can both reign the other in if there is problems, but also speaking realistically about not holding in the reigns too tightly and getting past your own insecurities.
C (11 months ago)
Hi Mark I am ok with him liking other girls' photos, but while he's doing that he's ignoring my messages. How should I act to this? :)
Mark Rosenfeld (11 months ago)
That's just rude Christine. Have a watch of this video: https://youtu.be/mQHgO6u0sDw
Barbara Saxby (11 months ago)
I love when you bring up some of these less talked about topics. Always insightful! Its all about knowing your boundaries and good communication . Thanks Mark.
Mark Rosenfeld (11 months ago)
Yeh I find this a fascinating one because it's so new to modern day relationships and SUCH a grey topic depending on the couple and their attachment styles. Very interesting!
Belle Rb (11 months ago)
"Check in with yourself" - and makesure you not doing the same thing as well. Hehe.. absolutely love that Mark! :)
Belle Rb (11 months ago)
Agreed! 👌💯
Mark Rosenfeld (11 months ago)
Thanks Belle! Always good to look internally first.
Eugenia Buitron (11 months ago)
Hi Mark, I have a question...There is this man I know from an organization I belong to who every time he sees me, he stops everything he's doing or talking to and stares at me with this look of frozen fear on his face? I try to smile at him but he doesn't acknowledge, what's up?? It's freaking me out. Thank you
Mark Rosenfeld (11 months ago)
LOL. I have absolutely no idea. He sounds like he's terrified of you! Did you kick him many years ago??
Jena 79 (11 months ago)
Lets say you did do these things especially being vulnerable and all you got is silence and got ghosted???... Guess that pretty much answers my own question lol!
Mark Rosenfeld (11 months ago)
Laura Montesinos (11 months ago)
What to do when your bf likes his ex pictures and keep their relationship and trip photos on his social media? It's a total no for me, not allowed. What do you girls think? I personally had to break up with him. I don't trust him.
خديجة غريب (4 months ago)
Laura Montesinos it's show that he miss her
Mark (11 months ago)
Jermia's acting was really great in this one, especially the second scene!
Jermia Turner (11 months ago)
Love you!! x
Jay Kate (11 months ago)
Mark what should I do when my love told me that we r going to date but after that she started dating someone pls answer me
Sherrie Beazley (11 months ago)
No matter the fact is that's disrespectful and if its done by him best thing to do is kick his ass to the curb with all his stuff behind him. This happened 6 months ago to me by someone who I just started dating when I saw that I told him he could do want he wanted but I was not willing to invest in a player and I would be on my way. He told me he loves me and they were just their friends he had for many years and since it bothered me he wouldn't do it again and he hasn't. Still together but wished he would drop people that been his ex's and girls he thought we hot on his social sites that message him . Been seriously considering to call it quits and just live as a hermit and close the world out then don't have to worry about other people hurting you .
Lizzy M (11 months ago)
What do you do when you and your boyfriend have agreed to have a threesome and suddenly since you agreed to it he is obsessed about it always bring it up or talking about it...? How do you deal with that? I’m worried the threesome is going to change our relationship...
Emily Allison (2 months ago)
You pick the girl. Don't make it a friend. Make clear boundaries. Do it sooner than later. Then tell him to shut the hell up about it...furthermore, if he gets a girl, you should get a guy. That is my rule and boy does it make them think harder about pushing for it! LOL!
Mary Hunt (2 months ago)
I know I'm late to the game, but just know that you have the right to withdraw consent from any sexual activity at an time. Just because you agree to do something now, doesn't mean you have to do it in the future. If this situation feels off (maybe you're having second thoughts about the additional person) or you're not comfortable with having a threesome at all, that is totally valid. If you're boyfriend really values you, he will understand and press no further. If he becomes angry or tries to guilt you into something you don't want to do, it's best to move on and find someone who will respect you and your wishes.
Barbara Saxby (11 months ago)
Fantasies are fantasies for a reason - when emotions get involved, or you watch him pay more attention or be more attracted to her - or he wants this all of the time now, I am afraid the relationship may suffer...
Sarah Nguyen (11 months ago)
Hey Mark. I just need some advice. We have been dating for quite a long time now but sometimes, he acts kinda weird. He goes out with his friends (which is also my friends) but he just hiding it away from me. I am okay with him going out with friends but why is he hiding from me? Also sometimes he forgets about me. He went home without me and when I ask where is he, he said he forgot. It makes me really sad, like I don't really means anything important to him. What should I do
nagham lvly (11 months ago)
Wow, amazing, well-done guys, really jermia acted as real👍👍👍👍👍👍👍, when the guy likes or seeing another girls photo whether it is normal or not you can understand his behavior if he looking only one photo every day or different if he keeping that photo on his phone or somewhere changing his behavior and so on when you suspect that there is something wrong, you can ask like jermia did yet, but just looking girls photos is normal when the guy is handsome like mark every girl likes to see not you don't love your boyfriend or husband ahahahahah that is normal.
cold; she (11 months ago)
Omg Thankyou for doing this topic! Such a needed topic
Habooba Abdulaziz (11 months ago)
This is so realistic
Mariposa axy (11 months ago)
Aww i wish i saw this about 6 months ago i was that girl :(
Marsha Hampel (11 months ago)
Hmmm...normally love the advice, content and acting...but not with this one. She acted like an unsure, scared, beaten down women...so many pauses...like she was walking on eggshells...Too much work! Too much like a game...kiss him to "reward" him sharing a simple feeling? Nah, not your Mom...or raising a puppy
Jermia Turner (11 months ago)
Yeah she sucks.
luulips (11 months ago)
Bwahahahaha Jermia has me laughing till I cry every time I see her over the top with the negative performance!!! 😂😂😂😂😂 She does great with the serious ones too. Great video Mark!!!
luulips (11 months ago)
Jermia Turner (11 months ago)
I will never stop doing the over the top performances! hahahah xx
Princess Vanessa (11 months ago)
Hi Mark!! Great video. Some ppl really have trouble with these kinds of issues, your video makes sense and seems extremely helpful. Cheers👸👑
Leslie Benitez (11 months ago)
Hey Mark, I really love your videos! :) I am a college student and I’ve never really dated any guys. Do you have any tips for girls who are starting in their dating life? Or when is the correct time to start looking for a partner? Love you ❤️
Hab A (11 months ago)
Always producing quality content 💯
MsBrock819 (11 months ago)
Ha! Jermia, so you saw Mark looking at my bikini pictures, that's how you know my name!?! 😉 yeah just be glad he can look. I had a blind bf once, he would feel up other women to 'see' what they look like. Jermia - Awesome acting I totally believed it! Mark thanks for not liking my topless pics! That would be totally disrespectful to on-screen gf Jermia 😂😂 Disclaimer: I just totally made all that up for laughs. Forgive my sense of humour for those who find it offensive. Great performance and content as usual that last statement is not a joke! Xoxo
Jermia Turner (11 months ago)
Oh maaaaaan. You caught me hahaha x
Mark Rosenfeld (11 months ago)
😂😂😂 I thoroughly enjoyed this comment
Catie Fladra (11 months ago)
Actually, the fact that he would be attracted to other women, fantasize about them, imagine sex with them is painful. It hurts regardless of the way I'm trying to justify it, to understand it. So I have a question, Mark, I wanted to ask already for a long time. Do you belive that love can last the whole life, that a couple can be faithful their whole life and at the same time not frustrated or unsatisfied? Assuming it's a good relationship generally and the sex is good too, they can make most of their fantasies come true etc. Because actually if my man would crave for other women, imagine them all the time, masturabte to their pics and fantasize about them, but not act only because he wants to be fair to me, that would be actually very sad, that wouldn't probably make sense. I want him to be faithful because he is genuinely still attracted to me, because I'm the most sexy and beautiful for him. If not, and if he wouldn't betray me only because he'd think it'd be immoral, it doesn't make much sense. It wouldn't be love anymore, it'd be a contract. So I want to ask if you belive in neverending genuinely passionate love?
Racheal Angonai (11 months ago)
hahahaha and do i look like i care as long as they don't fuck
Catie Fladra (11 months ago)
Thank you, Mark and Jermia. You acted that in a great way. It's really helpful. And your suggestion to consider where my insecurity comes from, why actually it bothers me is really important. I'll try to figure it out. Although I'm talking theoretically, because I didn't notice any activity like that by my boyfriend, but still his social media interactions keep me on my toes. I think it's a really tough topic. I wouldn't tolerate that kind of behaviour if my man would like on Instgram or Facebook bikini pics or other pics made openly sexy on puropose, regardless if celebrity, random girls or friends. Even if he watches that kind of photos from time to time (if too often, then I guess he has a problem with himself), he shouldn't like it, because it's like telling publicly in front of many people and me: "Hey people, I think that this girl is super sexy". If he ever said something like that in front of me and a group of friends or other people on a street or at a party, I'd consider that disrespectful, I'd feel humiliated. And social media is kind of like saying that. Maybe not so strong, but it's definitely like saying something publicly. And I'm always watching which photos on Facebook he likes and which he loves or wows. Some people say, come on it's just Facebook, but as far as I learned Facebook can tell you a LOT if you know how to read it. It's probably the same with Insta, although I don't use it.
Jezabel FM (11 months ago)
Hey Mark! I've to congratulate you and Jermia for this video. This is a topic it's being in my mind lately. For me is super weird following or liking unknow people pictures specially if you're already dating someone. The guy I like it's being doing this a lot lately and It freaks me out! It's weird because even though we're not together we have a great conexion and actually the people around us act like there is something really deep going on between us. My question is ¿ can be someone doing this kind of stuff just to make the other person react and finally make a move? Thanks in advanced!!
Bonnie Buckner (11 months ago)
this was a wonderful video.
tamera monteiro (11 months ago)
Isabella Harper (11 months ago)
That part of my brain never turns off
Martina Odiakosa (11 months ago)
Sheila Blake (11 months ago)
Trust & mutual respect are the biggest factors I look for in a relationship. Being attracted to others on either side is of course normal. I've not had to deal with this particular situation, but there is a point of crossing the line on social media. I would hope that at regular intervals checking in with your partner & redefining a relationship, or having a jiggle about with things to accommodate each others needs during its progress to make sure that both people are happy with how the relationship is going is key and paramount to a healthy 'growth chart' so to speak. So whether it's this issue or another, just keeping the channels of vocabulary always open and respecting your partner enough to bring any concerns or insecurities to the table. Nothing good can come from keeping things bottled up. Openness, sharing, trust and mutual respect is I believe the basis & key to a mutually successful relationship. This was a great, in depth & thorough video Mark. Thank you. Tell me, what made you so excited & happy this week? x
Juliette Zhang (11 months ago)
to me, if he likes revealing pics and twerking vids, he will fantasize about it
mark jonesz (11 months ago)
Guess iam the only man that comments your videos haha :) lol :D . I think it's natural human behaviour ... we do that in a way to get our needs met by our partner , i've done that ... i admit by talking with my ex girlfriend about other girls that were flirting with me , when she reacted made me feel validated ( through time and experience i stopped doing that . ) ... Also girls tried to make me jealous many times by posting old pictures with guy friends ''very intimate'' with them .. just in the moment that we were getting closer. I think when we see our partner reacting made us feel that they really care about us ... ( but it's not the most mature behaviour to have ... talking about it like the video suggests it's a good choice and be resolving the issue can get the couple close to each other , creating a deeper bond. ) . Btw id like to make a suggestion ... talk about open relationships mark , i would like to hear your perspective about that . ( i see that the number of people considering that is increasing ... but i never been in a open relationship so i don't know how it works ... i mean really loving a girl and be in a open relationship.)
Jermia Turner (11 months ago)
Love having a guy on the channel!
mark jonesz (11 months ago)
Yes a true match is soo beautiful , it creates an aura that people are drawn and surprised by it :) , a rare thing that i believe once the world started healing it will appear more often . Thanks for your suggestion i will check it out :) , pleasure talking with you too. All the best Sheila <3
Sheila Blake (11 months ago)
A beautiful and very true sentiment. We are completely different as feminine and masculine personalities to enhance each other's energies in my opinion. A true match is a beautiful thing. Mark is a wonderful, relatable speaker and certain parts of him remind me of the talented & wonderful Tony Robbins. If you've never watched a video or read his book, I highly recommend Matthew Hussey. You can check him out on YouTube too, he's been doing this for years & moves in to the world of life coaching through his relationship advice too. Check him out, I think you might like him. He started off about 13yrs ago, I think as a young man. He's self taught and highly intelligent & inspiring as Mark is. Great to chat to you : )
mark jonesz (11 months ago)
Hi Sheila thanks for the encouragement . I like to see things from differents perspectives and i like to learn with everybody . Mark is a pioneer in these segment so i appreciate the work he's doing and will support his work. I always loved the feminine essence , i always related better to woman than man ... so seeing things from the woman perspective it open our eyes for many things . I truly believe in the equality of genders knowing that , each have a important and different function but man is not better than woman and woman is not better than man . Masculine and feminine energy combined together is a powerful force that can move mountains and change world <3 <3 <3
Sheila Blake (11 months ago)
mark jonesz Hi Mark, I think it's great that another man watches Mark's videos. I will also watch videos meant for men. I think it gives you a whole range of concepts to consider when looking for a healthy relationship. Someone like you will be the better informed going in to a long lasting relationship in the future. I love that you're doing your homework : ) a woman you meet further down the line will certainly reap the benefits.
andrea mc donagh (11 months ago)
What about if he's private messaging women you don't know ?? As in on facebook messanger and does'nt show you the conversations ??
onestunningdude (10 months ago)
andrea mc donagh - private messaging could be a problem, but if you have access to his phone, then he isn't doing anything. If he doesn't let you hold his phone it's a problem
Jermia Turner (11 months ago)
Sketchyyyy. But also, how do you know he's messaging other women?
Joker Motorcycle (11 months ago)
That lady in ur video is so insecure either she's not confident or has issues lol. Her voice is totally annoying acts like a brat lol It's not the guys problem that he likes pics but she needs to get over herself.
Jermia Turner (11 months ago)
We’re all playin’ hahah. No stress here 😊. Thanks to both of you for being active on the channel, ladies! Xx
Joker Motorcycle (11 months ago)
She's fantastic towards the end it's just a demonstration video duh 🙄Don't take me personal 💋
122scorpio - (11 months ago)
Jermia Turner 😂😂 I didn’t even realise !!
Jermia Turner (11 months ago)
122scorpio - (it’s me, I’m the girl)
Jermia Turner (11 months ago)
122scorpio - I think you might be right 😉
So.Asmâa (11 months ago)
I needed to watch this Thanks a million dear Mark ❤
Life tobelived (11 months ago)
I would add to the conversation at some point that it is easy for things to start out innocent and then take a turn because we all like to get attention especially if we are going through a vulnerable time. There are always a few women just sort of standing to the side or being interlopers because they like what they see in a man. Many times the man might not even realize that the woman has ulterior motives or he might think this is just innocent flirting I will be able to stop this before it gets out of control. Women have to be careful about the same thing too because there are always a few men waiting too. If people come with a guidelines than there is less time spent on arguing and more time spent on just enjoying each other.

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