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What should you do if he likes another girls pics on Instagram ? Is he liking inappropriate pictures on social media?
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Firstly no you aren't overreacting , it's not cool, loving or respectful.
And whilst he may just brush it off, if you aren't comfortable with it , then you need to say something .
What is his need behind needing to look at sexualised images of other women?
Ask him if he would like it if the situation was reversed. You don't have to pretend it doesn't affect you , so let's learn how to address it.
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My boyfriend and I been together for almost a year, yesterday he added a girl on Instagram and LIKED HER PICTURES FROM 2 MONTHS AGO NOT ONE NOR 2 BUT 3 (not the only girl ). I'm furious right now...what do you think I should do ? Should I face him or keep it to myself ? I wanna stay classy and not pick up a fight over this but at the same time I'm Latina 😏
Lol tbis woman wants you to try and control your man. Men won't stop liking other woman's bodies but listen to this lady and he will absolutely lie about it. Creating distrust in the relationship. Way to go. #redpill
I’m okay with he liking Instagram models pictures but I get more self continuous when he likes his female friends pictures (they are so damn pretty) since he’s very people person and I respect that and I know I can’t stop someone from finding someone attractive but I don’t like when he likes his very attractive friends pictures (he has lots of female friends and they are all soooo pretty ) they are clearly better looking than me and I get insecure but I don’t know how to address that to him
My bf was liking lots of sexy pictures from women on ig he knew. He also sent follow requests to certain accounts that appeared to post sexy picuters. I found out three months into the relationship. I confronted him and he said he didn't realize it was disrespectful because when he was doing it he didn't think of it as sth bad. He stopped with it completely (been more than 6 months since). It still makes me feel uncomfortable when I think of it.
Exactly Thank You!!! It really hurt me that my ex had added gorgeous women on Facebook and Instagram and overly sexualized pics from ho bags showing off huge boobs and he would put hearts and wow faces on their photos and what really hurt were several were women he had met and wanted to date but the women had turned him down so he was still chasing them on social media commenting on their pics. When I complained about him putting a heart on this blonde chick’s pic whom I knew his friend had tried to set him up with and he’d met her in person and she had huge fake boobs and he had continuously tried to hit on her after he met her even though she showed no interest in return (before I met him), I didn’t find it appropriate that he was putting hearts on her pics. It made me feel like he was lusting after other women! And I made him get rid of those other chicks he had added whom he didn’t even know who were super models or porn models or not even real accounts. Because I broke up with him when I found that he had asked a woman he had a crush on out to lunch behind my back (because she’s moving away) he goes around telling everyone I was way too controlling and told him whom he could and could not be friends with on social media and in real life. It was such an exaggeration I only said “take off the women you don’t even know whom you only added as friends because you think they’re hot and want to look at their pics it’s disrespectful to me as you’re girlfriend”. I also got upset he was still texting and talking to women he had asked out and had crushes on and kept in contact with his girlfriends going all the way back 30 years to high school. Some of the exes on his Facebook friends didn’t bother me because they were from so long ago and now we’re ugly or super fat lol but the attractive women I knew he was attracted to and was going into see them at their work and still texting and talking to them that really hurt and he wouldn’t understand it he said “but I’m always with you”. I just feel like he was very immature and he later admitted to having an addiction masterbating to porn daily since he was 9 years old. The other thing that made it worse was he completely stopped complimenting me or touching me anymore when he had always told me I was beautiful daily. He turned out to be a gas lighting Narcissist and toxic so it was a good thing that I eventually left but he caused a lot of damage to my self-esteem.
Thanks for the video this has been a issue for me ,not only that but adding girls and then deleting them,also porn .I feel its disrespectful but guys always say your insecure and say its normal for men ,and it gets irritating when they keep doing it
What if he was a married man? Im married to one that does the same thing. A few years back when only dating, he cheated on me. I let it slide of course. Then those times I felt like he didn't love me enough. Thats when I did it back in return to see if he really did love me or not. I feel so stupid for doing this in which I totally regret. A couple years back I cheated on him with an formal employee. He was so pissed he beat my face up badly leaving only bruises. He said why would you do this? I told him the truth. Saying I didn't feel loved and not being close to me. He said I could've come to him and said something. But every time I do he gets so pissed. Here we are years later. He's giving me another chance. But ever since the incident, he's been acting really different. When I'm away or in another room, or even in the shower he's on social media doing something he's not suppose to be doing. Last week, I got out of the shower, I saw him swiping the social media over to something in arabic like the news. He's Arabian by the way. Yes, he's muslim too! But his Side of the family don't do those 2 or 3 wives. Just One. So after he swipes the social media over on his phone, he pretends nothing happens. He looks at me saying what? I Said nothing of course. So when he went to work. I created a fake profile on instagram. I see 990 people he's following. Majority are girls. I see pics of women half dressed, showing cleavage, legging so tight, reveling butts, and he likes every single one of them. I wonder if I'm too fat, don't have long hair, or big butt or boobs. Im sad, he committed on one girls pose who was wearing a skin tight black dress with blue jean jacket on posing. with cleavage and butt sticking out. He committed an 😍😍😍👌🙏. I don't even know what that means. Im sad and I wish the love of my life would just come back to me to respect me, loyal in all :( I wish somebody would tell me what's going on or what I'm doing wrong. Sometimes I have suicidal thoughts because he tells everytime if I don't like something or if I don't trust him then LEAVE!!!!!!!!!..
Damn I wanted to find out if my girlfriend doing this is okay even after I mentioned it to her. I mean if it generally isn't a big deal then it's fine by me but I don't understand why your SO can't resist doing something that's so pointless but at the same time potentially harmful (even if only a little). I can't help feeling that there's a reason that love has blinded from seeing, so I ask and she doesn't tell me what I suspect that reason might be. It seems I'm in denial especially after watching this because the reason/circumstance is obvious.
I don’t really care when he likes his female friends Instagram posts and he doesn’t even like Instagram models posts (he follows them but doesn’t like their stuff, thank god). But it’s our friends friends who he doesn’t even know but they’re hot and he’ll like those. And the worst thing is I know I shouldn’t be mad but I just can’t help but compare myself to that girl and think that that’s what he wants and I’ll never add up to it. So when he likes stuff like that it just adds to my own insecurity. But my bf is always telling me how beautiful I am and is the sweetest guy ever and hates when I talk down about myself. I just wish I could think of myself the way he thinks of me.
Gals, we won't automatically stop being attracted to other women because we have a girlfriend. This should only really matter to you ladies, if your relationship is one based purely off of physical attraction. If your relationship is based off mutual affection, similar interests, trust, accountability, and respect, then you have nothing to worry about. But if you are feeling jealous and insecure, its probably because you are unconsciously aware that one of those key elements in the relationship is missing, so you must do what you can to fix or establish those components of the relationship so that you feel secure. Alternatively leave, because its likely that one or both of you are too immature for a serious relationship to exist if something as petty as this is a problem.
I wish I saw this a few days ago. I got into such a bad argument. There are things we have discussed and I'm ok with because we have come to an agreement. But for some reason the Instagram pictures really bothered me. The ones that were borderline porn. And I could not understand why it bothered me so much. Of course he started to call me over dramatic, crazy, and that I was just jealous. When I have never been a jealous partner to anyone. I told him that this was about respect of our relationship. I really wish I saw this earlier because I didn't handle that issue too gracefully.
So here’s my situation. I’m completely confident that my boyfriend wouldn’t cheat on me because he was cheated on in a previous relationship and it really hurts him and has caused him to have trust issues, and he often makes comments about how awful cheating is, etc. BUT, he met this girl at his school (we go to different schools not that far apart) and she told his friend that if he didn’t have a girlfriend, AKA me, she would try to hook up with him. He knows this info because he told me that the girl said this. I checked out her Instagram one day and saw that my boyfriend had liked a couple of her photos. They weren’t revealing or anything, just normal selfies. I’m trying not to let it upset me, but I don’t understand why he would like them knowing she’s clearly interested in him AND he’s in a relationship. He’s also the type of guy who is super nice to everyone so I’m trying to tell myself he’s just being nice. 😂 what does this mean though? Please help!
Omg, my ex was on ig for one year before i found out! I did not even know about ig. It sucks because there these girls in my town and he is hiting likes. Then ended hucking up with one. Social media! Omg. I am broken. But i felt so in the dark I created my ig, and still feel terrible to have not known this.
My boyfriend not only likes sexy pics, I have no problem with that, but he also likes many other regular girls whom he barely knows, he keeps adding girls and liking their photos. I talked with him and he said I was crazy and overreacting, am I wrong? I feel bad, I would never do that to him
Try explaining rather than expressing ...men respond more to logic rather than emotion. If he can't see anything wrong with it ( and if he is doing something wrong ) then you have to ask yourself how much are you willing to compromise your standards and peace...
It bugs me sooooo much when my bf likes other girls pictures because in the beginning we BOTH agree we're NOT going to like, comment, & msg other people ! so when I catch them doing any of those they call Me Crazy & say I'm Overreacting!? so like she is worth that much to Disrespect your own Woman? you liking her picture to get her attention isn't doing anything wrong? Everytime one of my Exs cheated on me it all started with just ONE LIKE so don't sit there and tell me It's Nothing 🤦🏻♀️ when it'll start to be Everything! just had to let that out 😒
He liked the girls pic infront of me and i was like “really” he’s like “come on , have you ever seen a pic of someone and was like gah damn and it hurt me so much” I was like when I’m interested in one person I don’t focus on other people. He just like a bunch of girls on insta that aren’t real pics like their bikini or cute pics of them that are edited and just a bunch of makeup and I felt very insecure. No shade but he has no idea how it hurts me, if I did the same thing he would be so upset
I was looking at my bf dms he let me just so I can text random people for fun and I looked on one girl and he’s like let me eat your ass I laugh bc it was a “popular” Instagram account but it really hurt cuz I know I can’t be pretty enough for him
Ditto girl... what if we liked dudes pics and said you should start working out you would look hot with buff arms ... it takes so long to get buff that would offend them just like asking us to dress up for them or dress down I should say because of “instamodels” doing it and obviously were not gonna look like them because they photo shop the HELL out of their pics! It’s a line a respect you do not cross and I’m over it. I told my bf I don’t want to be seen with a guy who likes 100s of pics a day because people can see when he likes them on the “following” page and it’s embarrassing! It’s like I’m not enough. But his answer was you know how much I love and adore you! Yada yada ... actions speak louder than words! He finally stopped then I see him liking fitness girls and his response this time was well they aren’t in bikinis! I thought I could if they weren’t half naked!? Like wtf?! No! If I was liking a fitness dude who is 10 years younger than me I know he wouldn’t appreciate it... you get what you receive and if it happens again I’m doing my own thing! I’m sick of being jealous and now insecure because I wasn’t this way until we dated 😕
I’ve been bringing it up to him here and there for the past two years and nothing has changed. Now after having a baby 4 months ago , I’m not that comfortable with my body at the moment and I feel so crazy for being so hurt and upset about this. Literally crying from it happening this morning... He just gets pissed at me for being hurt and doesn’t understand even though I’ve explained it to him so many times. Tired of it
Please treat yourself better. I lived this for 25 years and almost felt traumatized due to it. I'm still working through the after effects with a great relationship, and it's difficult as it just doesn't "go away." I'd tell him I want to go to therapy or something.
My boyfriend for almost 3 years keep liking pictures ALL THE TIME EVEN WHEN I TELL HIM EVERYTHING U SAID !! It’s like he doesn’t know why and I feel so insecure & I know he doesn’t want to be with me or doesn’t like my body :(
I’ve also heard the term micro cheating, being that even though your partner isn’t physically acting on someone else and being unfaithful, they are still going against your boundaries and giving another woman the time of day.
I feel so much better after watching this video. He really told me i was overreacting and i was being crazy about it. I closed my eyes about it a couple of times, but he continued to like every single one of those pictures. I was really hurt seeing his name unter her posts. I broke up with him, because I couldnt stay any longer und hurt my own feelings. Thank you, Renee!
But.. Not that its right for a MSN to go that but A WOMEN NEEDS TO FEEL SECURE. ENOUGH IN HER MAN AND ESSPECIALLY HERSELF .. TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP OR SHE LEAVES HRRSELF OPEN FOR HURT .. BE ASTABLISHED IN YOUR SELF WORTH BEFORE BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP .. LOOKING BUT NOT APROCHING OR TOUCHING SOULD BE FINE IN A TRUSTING Healthy relationship or it CONSTRICTED MISRABLE AND .. a insecurity witch is ynatractive Aanyways
Thank you so much for this. Every guy has always called me crazy or said I was overreacting. But like you said, who are they to determine how I am supposed to feel about something? And then if the tables were turned, it’s a problem. Talk about hypocrite! It hurts and I don’t have to stand for it. I would rather be alone than be with someone who does not appreciate me and my feelings.
My boyfriend lives in saudi..and he continuously talking about...Philippines girls and Korean girls...and I caught him liking Philippines girls cleavage pic..all likes were on her intimate pic...as she makes cake..there were no comments on her recipe..but on her intimate pic...but he started shouting on me...😕😦😦...I don't know
Eliana Gervacio whatever problem a man has, he has the problem. You can talk until you’re blue in the face. If he wants to change he will, and if he doesn’t...
Women have to consistently show men, like...not being with or bothered by them.
Some men are very immature, some aren’t, even unto the 70s and 89s, even if their wife is near.
Women have to respect and love ourselves, and turn to that care...everyDay!
Be inteRested in something more than just being interested in him.
No one can make a man settle or commit.
I just found my BF liking not just models but they happen to work a few blocks at a titty restaurant a few blocks away. And I AM TORN. Celebrities are one thing, but the Bitch next door?! That’s a whole other kind of Fuckery 😡
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